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Tired of all the scammers, liars, and cheats
About Me:
I am very much real and not a playboy. I don't have the patience for those kind of games. I'll try to tell you enough in this letter so you can get a feel of what kind of person I am and can know a little of my history. So, I guess I will start by telling you why I am on an Asian dating site looking for a lifetime partner. I am 51 y/o and have been married twice. Both those marriages ended because my wife cheated on me. The first time I got married I was only 17 and we had 3 children. That marriage lasted 6 years until she ran off with a man I was working for and left me to raise the kids on my own. I did this for 11 years before getting remarried. The woman I married the second time had two daughters aged 2 years and 2 months when we married. That marriage lasted 16 years. I raised my stepdaughters as if they were my own blood. Then last June my 16 y/o daughter came to me and told me she thought her mother was having an affair. This was devastating to me. I drive big truck over the road and was just home on the weekends. I had no idea. I thought everything was fine. Turns out my wife had been in an affair for almost a year. The affair was bad enough, the fact that my daughter had to be the one to discover it was horrible.
I have 5 grown children and 6 grand kids. I'm a young grandpa, though, as I got married so young the first time. I'm very family oriented. I have been many things in my life. I was a nurse for a dozen years. While doing that I also worked as a professional MMA fighter and trainer. I left the ring for good 15 years ago. Because of that constant training I am still in pretty good shape although 15 years of driving for a living have made me a bit chubbier. I'm still a large muscular man though. I am truly the gentle giant type and cherished the women that have been in my life. I never want a woman to fear my physical abilities but only to feel secure and safe when she is around me. I have big arms, its true, but my heart is the biggest thing on me. I have been told I wear my heart on my sleeve, I suppose that's right.

Before you contact me know that I am not going to pay your rent, buy you a cam, get anything you have out of pawn. or buy your medicine or food. However, if we fall in love I will come visit you in your country, bring you to the U.S., marry you, give you children if you'd like. and I will cherish you, protect you, and provide for you the rest of my life, so long as you are a faithful wife.
My ideal partner:
Looks and age are not as important as her heart. I don't care if she's thin or not, beautiful or not, but she must have a faithful heart and a belief in marriage for a lifetime. She must be faithful as infidelity is the one thing that poisons a marriage beyond repair. I will never cheat on her and I will never give a cheater a second chance. I tried this in the past and I've learned that if a person can demean and lower themselves like this once then the second and third time will come even easier. The saying "once a cheater always a cheater" has proven true in my lifetime experience.
I would prefer she was at least 30 y/o but I will not immediately turn away a younger woman. She would just have to convince me she had her head screwed on straight. I don't want someone that will leave me in the dusk of my life because they are still middle aged.
I am:
Seeking a:
United States
Zip code:
Marital Status:
Looking for:
English, French, Spanish
Body type:
5' 10"
Living Situation:
Alone, With pets
Social Setting:
Home Body, Better in small groups
TV Watching:
News Junkie, Sitcoms, Movies
Home and Family
Have Kids:
Yes - but not at home
Want (more) kids:
Not sure
Professional Life
Some College
Employment Status:
$50,000 to $74,999
Attend Services:
Political Views:
Very conservative
Sense of Humor:
Friendly, Clever / Quick Witted, Dry / Sarcastic, Campy / Cheesy
Movies, Watching Sports, Travel, Cooking, Gaming, Television
Christian / Other
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