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I'm looking for a wife, not a girl friend. Is there anything wrong with me?
There is nothing wrong with wanting a wife. Wanting to commit to a relationship and stay the distance is admirable.

I think the thing is, life has changed a lot for women. In the 50s if you weren’t wedded and bedded by the time you were in your early twenties, there was something wrong with you. Now, women have a lot more choice and therefore finding someone to marry is often one in a list of things that women want to achieve and for a lot of them, it’s not number one on the list. It only goes to number one when they meet the right man who loves them and values them for who they are, and that is how you would want it to be, because a woman who is marrying you for any other reason than you make her days happier and she can’t imagine life without you, is marrying you for the wrong reason.

Likewise, you should not be approaching every potential meetup with a view to matrimony. I was married for a long time to the wrong man and it is an exquisite form of misery.

So, when you consider dating, I would, as you have mentioned you do, take time to get to know the girl. Find out if you share the same goals and want the same things out of life. I wouldn’t mention your desire for marriage until a fair way along the dating path but I would show her that you value her and appreciate her by your actions. Think about things that she is doing during her day and help her with them. For example, if she cooks a meal for you, carry the dirty dishes to the sink and offer to do the dishes.

Which brings me to another point. I have met men before who want to marry because they want someone to cook, clean, do the housework and have babies… in short, go back to the 50s. That ain’t gonna work these days ;P Women usually work and work just as hard as men do and I hate to say it but the wage gap still hasn’t been broken yet, so more often than not, they are doing the same job for less money.

To be happily married these days, you have to forget those old stereotypes and be a team. Work together to both do the housework and look after the babies. If she isn’t working then fine, she should probably take up the old roles, but if she is, she’s going to need you to pitch in and help her.

So take your time, don’t mention your desire for marriage, make sure you are the right fit for each other and then, after a long period of dating, only then, would I pop the question.

I would give it at least a year of being together before you talk about marriage. If she brings it up before then, great! You can then talk about it and if you both feel the same way, go for it. But jumping out of the gate too soon is more likely to blow a hole in your hopes than help them.

Hope all of this helps :) Good luck, I hope you find your one true love :)

The only thing wrong with you, is that you drank the KoolAid. You have bought into society's outdated brainwashing. Don't listen to the Traditional Conservatives because you don't owe society anything, which includes spawning worker drones for the next generation of 1%-ers. Don't listen to the feminists either, because you don't owe women anything, either. Or if you do listen to them, listen with a critical mind, just like you are reading Mein Kampf and give them the same wide berth, because they believe what they are saying.

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I applaud anyone looking to have a life long partnership of any kind. True love is a thing of beauty. A life Partnership such as marriage can be extremely blissful, joyful and fulfilling on different levels(emotionally, physically and spiritually) etc. Having that perfect connection with an imperfect person takes commitment, time, selflessness, attraction, similar interests and similar values...among other things. I believe modern society's view of romantic relationships is "messed up" to say the least.

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