You are amongst the single Filipina ladies in the Philippines who dream about dating or marrying a man who lives in the US, Canada, Australia, France, Italy, Poland, UK, and so on. When you meet and chat with a guy through an Asian dating site, you have no idea what his current marital status as well as general background like finance, career, interests, hobby and etc. You are taking a risk to see him and marry him. So, I am writing one article to list some tips and advice for you to consider before making the utmost important decision for you life.
Filipina ladies & Western men (Trobicalmba)
I live in America so I know it is easy to find a single woman here. What you need to do is to walk up to a lady you like and start talking. You can find out later whether she has a crush on you or not. Another way is to find a girl in a bar or club, guys can use the same method to approach to a lady. That’s simple to find a date in the United States. However, getting a date is completely different from building a relationship and getting married. Dating and marriage are the long and difficult stage that many men failed to do so.
Most single Western men who joined free online dating service like Asiandatenet.com or others to look for Filipino women are above 35 years old. You hardly find a 20-year-old American man who joined a dating website to find a foreign wife. And, you know what? These men just look for young single, widow or divorced women in the Philippines or other Asian countries for marriage. As I mentioned above, they can find a date in America but they want a young and beautiful girl so that’s why they are interested in you.
Do you think you are prettier and sexier than Native American women?
These American men think Filipina ladies are more beautiful and sexier than American women. As you know more than 75% American ladies who turn to 35 and up are fat. It does not matter if they don’t mind to date or marry a big woman. Most of these guys are not interested in dating a fat lady so they want to look for a Filipina wife. I am a Filipino man so I know exactly how the Filipinas look like. Most of us, from teen girls to middle aged women, are slim, attractive and sweet. Another advantage is that most American men don’t pay attention whether you are in low, middle or high class. What they are looking for is the sweet woman for marriage.
Western men are strongly in bed which is a good thing that attracts the women. Many American women usually give their men “cold shoulder” when they are in bad mood. You are Asian. You have this excellent and special trait about treating and respecting your husband, which most men like it, never give him a cold shoulder, even when you are in bad mood. This is very important in the marriage so you know how to treat a husband to make sure he is happy and satisfied.
We Filipinas are family oriented and we work hard to help our family. We don’t tend to depend on others to help us but work to make money and live dependently. We always help our husbands to build up a good family and take good care of our children. However, Filipino men in the Philippines don’t treat us right. There are many domestic violence in here that make us scared to date a local man. In fact, as we have seen many bad relationships between local Filipino men and women here. Oh God, 80% of local men get women pregnant and “gone with the wind”. That’s scary for all of us. We love Western men because they are more responsible than local Filipino guys.
Every year, there are thousands of successful marriages between Filipina ladies with Western guys. In America, statistics showed that thousands of Visas of new Filipina brides who come to this country every year. If you first meet a Western man in person or online, then don’t talk about money. We are popular in the West because of our sweet, loyal and family oriented characteristics. Don’t let him think us like gold diggers so never ask for money from him if you want to have a long term relationship that leads to marriage.