Why do Japanese Women Go For American Men?
Nowadays there are an increasing number of Japanese women looking for single American husbands. Especially, online dating sites have thousands of Japanese female profiles that seek men in US. Is this a gamble for these ladies in Japan?
No, it is not a gamble but is a careful thought before they make their personal profiles online to find a perfect man in the United States of America. The most important reason is that these guys are different from Japanese guys. American men usually treat their wives in a better manner, respect and love them more, especially they appreciate their wife’s career even after they have children.
I have to admit one thing about Japanese guys. I am one of them so I know exactly how they are. Most of men in Japan don’t treat their wives as equal as American men do. You know what? Men in USA don’t treat their wives as maids, you know what I am saying? So, this is one of the most important reasons that they are looking for Japanese American men or even native men in America. You can check at Asian dating sites like asiandatenet.com for Japanese single girls who have good education background, good career etc. The whole point is that they don’t want to be a housewife after marriage, as men in Japan expect from their wife.
Every year, large dating sites have hundreds or thousands of couples connected each other. They travel to the US to meet their special someone whom they meet from these matchmaking sites. Every year, there is about 5% of Japanese singles marrying foreigners. So, online dating services have helped millions of single Japanese men and women to find their partner overseas. Japanese girls are looking for American husbands in the US is common these days.
Another reason is that most Japanese guys work too hard. They don’t have time to play with their family, no play, no fun and no good. I mean, a hard working man is good but not great. He needs to know how to balance work and play so your family is perfect. They don’t have to spend time with their friends, but their wife and children.
American men usually use sweet words with their wife, “you are pretty”, “I love you” etc. They even say that every time they talk to their wife. Only a few words to say them out, however, most Japanese men have hard time to say that. Come on guys, learn how to say that to your lady. “I love you” is so easy to say and it helps you a lot. Just say it out loud because she wants to hear it from you. I know some Japanese guys never say that word, “I love you”, after marriage.
Another reason that American men are getting good points is that they admit what they do wrong. “I am sorry, honey” is the words that they say every time they do something wrong. You know what? They apologize when they make mistakes because they want to take responsibility for what they do. However, some Japanese men can’t say these two words “I’m sorry” to their wives. That’s sad.
There are other reasons that Japanese women prefer from American men. American guys know what their wife want to fulfill their needs. The other thing is the romantic moments that they usually do to their wife. They never forget to give gifts to their wife on the special days like birthday, Christmas, New Year etc. The last reason is that American men usually try to be “bad boys” in bed. Most Japanese women like “bad boys” in bed, you know what I mean? So, Japanese women looking for American men for marriage is based on these above reasons.
Money and power are two things that these Japanese girls marry American husbands. To tell you one thing, most of these ladies are not young at all. They have lived in the U.S. for a long time. It is hard to see a young girl with an American guy in the United States. So, only when American guys come to Japan and marry a girl, this case is different. So, I think Japanese women looking for American husbands are fine but not wise.