There are millions of shy Asian guys who live in Asia or in the West, wondering if girls like them or not. They don’t have enough confidence to approach a girl whom they have crush on. They are wondering if the shyness turn off to girls or not. They have confidence for most of things in their lifestyle, except approaching to women they are interested. They really want to know if ladies like shy men.

Asian man at Shopping Mall

Can you answer this question?

A shy man can be defined as the lack of confidence to approach a certain girl whom he likes. He does not talk too much in front of people whom he does not know them well. When it comes to group of new people, a shy guy is quiet and it is hard to make him talk in front of others. He is afraid that what he is about to say may not be right. He keeps thinking about the way he is going to say, which takes too long. Other people around may change to another subject once this shy man finish thinking for the best sentence. He overthinks things before saying. This is about shy men acting. Most of Asian guys are shy when it comes to approaching girls.

Asian shy guys lose many opportunities to get a girl because of their shyness which hold them back. Many shy men have a hard time to say “I love you” to their girlfriends. However, when these girlfriends left them for someone else, they will tell how much they love their ex, but it is late. Asian girls are attracted to such shy guys but most Western girls aren’t. Therefore, it is rarely to see a White girl dating a shy Asian guy.

“Oh God! Asian guys are so shy“, White girls usually said that. Generally speaking, most of Western women said Asian men are shy, does not mean that’s true, right?

Asian man at the Wedding

I am an Asian, I don’t talk a lot but I am not shy. When it comes to the right girl, I will talk. I think it is about Asian culture which is different from Western culture. So, shyness in Asia is considered normally “good” because he usually overthinks before he acts. Most guys who are flirting to all girls in public are considered “bad” from general view.

In Asia, it must takes time for a guy to approach to a girl. Direct talk is sometimes bad because they don’t trust such too fast things. You saw a girl in the market, you come to her and say, “Hello there, I like your jean”, after a few minutes, you said: “can I get your telephone number?”. This won’t work. She won’t give it to you and will give you a fake number. It takes a few times to gain her trust. It is hard ’cause you may not see her again.

Sometimes Asian men are not interested in you so they don’t approach to you. This happens too. Some White women said that Asian men are shy but in fact, they don’t have crush on these ladies, that’s all.

If you compare Asian men and White, Hispanic or Black men, then fine, you’re right. They are shy. However, they are just careful guys in Asia when it comes to dating, relationship and marriage. Most Asian guys are not just in for sex but they think about seeking a lifelong partner so it takes time for them to approach a girl.

Girls, don’t fall on Western guys who are very friendly with you during the first talk, you may not be correct in understanding their characteristics. It takes more time for Asian men to approach to you but they are more serious and honest?