Most over 25-years-old women in China are stressful and pressured to get married because they don’t want to be in the list of Shang-Nu or leftover. Single Chinese women in this country who are over 25 years old are eagerly seeking help from marriage experts of how to get hitched. Unmarried women at this age become societal pressures that many of them don’t dare to go out in public. They don’t have enough confidence to look at their friends who are married and have kids.

Leftover women in China – Unmarried Chinese ladies

It’s about culture. Chinese women are traditionally married early in their life. When a woman is over 26 years old, she is considered a Shang-Nu or “leftover woman” in the society. This is the insult for those women, you know? That’s the attitude that people view such unmarried women who are not chosen by men. They are stressful and usually find a way to get hitched. They don’t want to be “leftover women” in China. Chinese people don’t have sympathy for these leftover women.

In China, if you are a woman then you should get married before you approach 25. It does not matter what level of education you are pursuing, getting married is the most important thing you should do. There are many successful women in China in their career. They are not married and they become societal pressures. It is hard to them to find a man with high standards now. When it comes to pick up a counterpart, they set high standards. So, they are left over women because they are too successful.

Many experts who have been helping single women in China to find a husband but it is hard. They guarantee that these Chinese ladies will find a life partner in 90 days. I personally doubt about the high success rate of these programs. Seeking a boyfriend or a husband is not about the same method that you read from a written book. Every woman has different concepts about how to choose their life partner. As you know some single ladies in China are in a rush of finding a husband so they chose the wrong guy and file divorced after marriage.

I personally think that you’d rather live alone and be happy than live unhappily with a husband you don’t love. Being a leftover Chinese girl is nothing wrong or humiliated. You should not care much about what the society view on you. You must live for yourself. Don’t rush into finding a boyfriend that you don’t have feeling for. You will regret later on. It takes time to find that special someone.

How do single women in China find a husband?

Chinese woman n man at Christimas tree

Social networking sites and online dating services are the solution for single women in China to get hitched. You are the boss of your time in using these websites to find your significant partner. Within 30 days, you can find a boyfriend that you love and he is your lifelong counterpart. No experts help here, you do your own thing. You are the one who control your own destiny. Don’t listen to other people. When it comes to love and marriage, you must go and find it by yourself.

Days 1-5: You sign up a profile at a social networking site or a China dating site such as Asiandatenet.com or others. Waiting to get approved takes sometime. You should be honest on your profile. You also need to post your most current pictures on it. You will receive emails from men who want to make friends with you. You only reply to guys whom you like to move on.

Days 6-10: You ask these guys to video chat online via Skype, Yahoo Messenger, Tango, Viber and so on to know their face. You make sure they are real and sweet. You keep chatting with them for a few times. You decide to keep the best guys only to continue. Keep talking and chatting with these men and select two best ones.

Days 11-15: It is time to meet face to face with these two best men. You must meet each single man in different time. Precaution is the big plus. Just ask them to meet in public places like restaurants, malls and etc. When you meet each other them, try to judge him carefully by the way he talks, wears and act.

Days 16-20: You should go out with these men again. This is the second date. Keep judging him again.

Days 21-25: Continue going out with them to help you make an important decision to pick the right man.

Days 26-30: Ask them to take you to visit their family. Meet their parents and siblings and make decision for the best man who is your boyfriend and a husband in the future.

That’s the secrets for a single Chinese woman to find a husband in 30 days.