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Asian Women Have No Option To Marry An Oversea Husband

If an Asian woman could marry a good man in Asia, then she will not find a foreign husband in America, Europe or Australia. In most of developing Asian nations like the Philippines, China, Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand, there is class distinction between the poor and the rich people. The rich class usually won’t marry the poor class. It is too hard for poor people to move up in a society. Most of the rich people have good connection with the government so they can work and succeed in their business.

Asian wife & husband at Christmas party

The poor Asian women usually find other ways to move up and get rich, especially marry an oversea spouse to immigrate to the West so they can work and make good money. Every year, there are more than 3,000 Vietnamese brides who come to the United States by marriage sponsor from their husbands. Most of these husbands are Vietnamese Americans or Viet Kieu USA who came back to their hometown and married these girls. In the Philippines, the number of marriages between Filipino men who live in the West (Pinoy) and local Filipina ladies are higher than the number of Vietnamese ladies who married Viet Kieu. Most of these women are below-averaged class who want to move up. Of course, Chinese brides who come to the US through marriage sponsor are the most.

There are some good and bad stories between these marriages. Many young Asian women are willing to accept the old husband whose age around their father’s age. Some beautiful and sexy single women in Asia accept ugly and old Asian men who live in the West because their goal is to come to the West to live. After they come to the USA, Canada, Australia or other European countries and became the permanent resident, they file a divorce. I think about 30% of such marriages are broken after they came to the new nation. Another reason is that most Asian men come back to their hometown and just marry beautiful and young girls so they are matched from the public point of view.

Back to our topic, most of Asian girls can’t find a good man there. If she could find a good husband in Asia, then she won’t leave the country. A good man can be defined as a man who love her and can help her family. In this case, she has a hard time to find that man because most of higher classes of men won’t marry the poor ladies. Most of these rich men think the poor women are gold-diggers so they won’t marry them. They want to find the wife whose is similar to theirs about material things. This is another reason that Asian ladies have no option but find a husband oversea.

An Asian woman is seeking a foreign husband who can help her parents and siblings. There is no way she can find such a good man in Asia who can do that. She must immigrate to a developed country so she can work and make money to help her parents, brothers and sisters. There are some husbands of these Asian women must send money to support their wife’s family back home on a monthly basis. Also, these Asian women come to the West try to make money and send back home to help their family as well.

Domestic violence is another reason that Asian women want to get married overseas. Low class men who are not educated usually treat women badly. They don’t have any respect for their wife. They control their wife too much. They get drunk almost every day. They can beat the wife if she dares to talk or argue with them. There are many such men in Asia. Most of Asian women are scared to get married by such guys.

On social networking sites like Facebook, Twitter, Google Plus and online dating sites like Asiandatenet, Asiandating or others, there are millions of single women looking for oversea men. They are seeking Asian men who live in America, Canada, Australia, Germany, Italy, France, and other European men. I personally think Asian women are going on the right track to find a husband oversea.

Reasons Asian Women Want To Leave Their Home Countries

Nov15

There are many reasons that single Asian women want to leave their home countries, including money, clean air, gender freedom, job opportunities and so on. So, they want to look for a Western husband who can sponsor them to the West. They first look for their own race then if can’t find any, they are open to White or Black men as well.

Asian women want to leave their home countries

Why do Asian single women want to marry a man who lives that far?

They just have no choice.

No Asian lady wants to leave too far away from her family, siblings, or friends. She has no option. She must leave her own country for brighter future for herself and her children. She accepts to marry a man who can help to change her life. Some single women in Asia have no idea what Western life looks like. They will accept a man overseas whenever there is a chance.

Asian ladies go to online dating sites to find Asian men who live in America, United Kingdom, Canada, Australia, Italy, France, Germany and so on. As you know, there are thousands of single Asian men who live in the West go back to their home countries to marry local girls. Most of Asian girls in the West usually “marry up” so there are many Asian men can’t afford to find a girl in the West. They must go back to find a girl in their home country. For example, there are thousands of Asian Americans, Australians, Canadians, Italians, French, German, British who come back to find local single women in Japan, Korea, Singapore, Indonesia, Philippines, Vietnam, Hong Kong, China, Thailand, Cambodia, India, Pakistan, Malaysia and so on.

If these Asian women can’t find an Asian Western man, then they will open to Native Western men. In fact, Asian women are too popular in the West that many Western men pursue them for marriage. They are popular in their small body size and smooth skin as well as their unique and submissive traits.

Back to our topics, there are many reasons that Asian women want to leave their own country to move to the West with their husbands.

The power of money. Most of them live in the poor economic condition. They have many siblings. Their parents are poor. They can’t find a good job to help their parents and siblings.
Domestic violence. Many men in Asia do not respect their wife. They can hit the wife if she tries to “argue” back. Especially, when he is drunk (most Asian men drink on every afternoon after work), she’d better listen and no talk or she will get beaten up. I think this is about the culture. I have seen many men who go out to drink every day and get drunk, go home and beat up their wives. They won’t change. That’s why many young girls have seen such domestic violence in their own family or from the neighborhood and they look for a relationship in the West.
Gender freedom. All women want to have this. They want to do whatever they like for their own good. They want to be treated fairly and respected by their husbands. That’s right. In the US or other Western nations as I mentioned above, the woman is considered as the “number 1” and man is considered as the “number 4” in the society.
Good environment. Some Asian ladies don’t consider better living condition as the main goal when they look for marriage in the West because they are not poor in Asia. The main reason they want to live in the West are the clean air, good and fresh food and excellent education for their children.

Domestic violence & Drinking in Asia

Generally speaking, the ultimate goal that single ladies in Asia want to leave their country is to find a good man for marriage. In other words, they want to marry a man who doesn’t get drunk every night, doesn’t have sex with someone else or prostitutes, doesn’t abuse the wife, doesn’t beat her up, and so on. It is hard to find such a good man in some parts of Asia.

Therefore, the option to marry an Asian man or and Expat is very attractive to women in Asia. They usually use online Asian dating services to sign up a personal profile and contact with single men in the West. They marry Asian, American, British, European, and Australian men who live in these Western countries. Every year, there are thousands of Asian women leave their country to migrate to the Western countries to live.

Why are Western Men (especially White Expats) Popular in Asia?

Jul12

Western men, especially White Expats, get a lot of attention from Asian girls in China, Japan, Singapore, North Korea, Indonesia, Vietnam, Thailand, Malaysia, Hong Kong, Philippines, and etc. They just walk on the road, doing nothing, and get all attention from local Asian women there. What’s wrong with these ladies?

We use terms like White Expats, foreign men, Western guys respectively on this article. They mean the same thing. Only some women call this while others call another name.

Western men & Asian ladies

Why do they treat these White foreign men that favor?

I have an Australian friend who lived in China for a few months. He found a Chinese girlfriend the first week. He said he didn’t do anything but she just came to him and started talking when he was walking in front of a food market. He just speaks English as a Native language and he is tall and white. No one knows he was laid off and have not found a job yet. He got all attention from local single women in China for just being a tall and White Expat. There are many Asian girls seeking American or other Western guys for marriage these days.

White foreign men are very popular in Asia because they were born and raised in greatest countries on the world. They are white, tall and sexy so most Asian ladies look at them with respects. No, this is the truth. If you are a Western man walking in China or the Philippines or other countries, then you will see how you are impressed by local Asian women over there. When you go to a bar, oh no, you’ll get all girls approach to make acquainted with you.

There are some advantages that White Expats have to attract local single Asian ladies:

Asian women are friendly towards Western men, especially Caucasians. They are very kind and polite to treat tourists and expats who are from the Western countries like America, Australia, Italy, Germany, UK, Canada and so on.
Most Western men are strongly in bed which is one of the favorites of some Asian women that you need to unleash it. Local Asian men will be rejected by small size. Some of single women in Asia have a wild sexual desires hidden in them, you are a white man so you will opt to unleash it.
A White Western man is considered as a “winning lottery” for an Asian woman. Many local women are living in poor economic condition so they want to marry with a White Expat to have better financial situation. Sometimes this turns out untrue because some Western guys are very poor.
Most White Expats are good people. This is true. They travel to Asia to have fun so they don’t want to cause troubles in a foreign country.
Caucasians treat women with respects and honor. Asian ladies think about this and it seems to be right. When they were born and raised in the West where strict rules are applied towards violence to women, so most of these guys never hit on their woman, no matter what.
When an Asian lady introduces her boyfriend or husband as a White foreign man to her parents, relatives or friends, she is judged as the utmost respects and talent.

There are more reasons why Western guys too popular in Asia. However, I have to say one bad side about a few guys who come to Asia and cheat on naive Asian women. Don’t do that. You guys have all advantages that local men don’t. Most Asian women are raised by traditional custom, one-woman-one-man, you shouldn’t hurt their feelings by cheating on them. So, Western men, especially white Expats are popular in Asia because they are viewed as the dream husbands for Asian women.

Tips For Asian Guys: Don’t Be Shy To Express Your Love

May17

Asian guys are honest and loyal in relationship and marriage but they are too shy to express their love to a woman. When they have a crush with someone, it takes too much time to approach her. They have never expressed “I love you” to their girlfriend. Why is it too hard for Asian guy to express his love? Does it have some traditional culture to do with this? Is this about religious beliefs that prevent him from expressing his love?

Asian guys

Even though they sign up a profile to find a lady at Asian dating site like Asiandatenet.com, they are shy to upload their photos. What’s wrong with you guys? Look at Western men, they upload their pictures on their profiles to prove that they are serious in seeking a woman. Why can’t you post a picture on your personal ad? Many Western ladies or half-Western and half-Asian women complain about the shyness of these Asian men (Chinese, Filipino, Thai, Cambodian, Vietnamese, Indian, Pakistani, Japanese, Singaporean, Korean, Indonesian, etc.)

Don’t be “timid sheeps”

You have to approach to whoever you like to date with. Expressing your affection to her is a simple thing to do. If you don’t approach or express your feeling to her, then you won’t know whether or not she is interested in you or not. Don’t let the opportunity passes by. Other guys will take that chance and you will miss it. I have to admit that most Asian men don’t talk a lot with their lady but they are responsible what what they said and acted. However, I recommend you be more brave and active to express your love to your beloved lady.

timid sheeps

In the old era, Chinese men have never expressed their affection towards their woman but they stay with each other to the rest of their life. They have never said “I love you” to the wife throughout their lifetime. The Chinese wife understands silently about that word, “I love you”, based on what he acts and does for her. That’s fine because it is long time ago. However, you live on this modern century, you need to express your love toward your girlfriend or wife.

Let me ask you a question, How do you feel when you hear your lover says “I love you”? You feel great, really. You want to hear it every second, minute, hour or day. So, why don’t you say it to your beloved gal? It helps improve your relationship if you express your feeling. She is happy to know how much you love her.

There are many reasons why Asian guys, especially Chinese, lack of openness towards their beloved gals. You are great people in general. If you live in a developing country like China, then you will be affected by the culture. However, I suggest you learn from Chinese American men by the way they express their affection to their beloved ones.

Be confident

She wants to hear “I love you” from your voice. This is the most important thing that you should learn to say it every time you have a feeling for her. Some of you are very successful in business and career so you have enough confidence when dealing with people. Why can’t you express your feeling with your girlfriend or wife? Try it, go home today and say “I love you” to her. She will be happy. She needs to hear that from you. She deserves to hear that from her beloved man. If you really love her, then express what you feel. Good luck!

Why do Asian Girls Search For American Men?

Jan10

Asian girls are very interested in dating but they can be very choosy. One good point to see involves how an Asian girl might prefer an American man over others. The reasons for this are very plentiful and should be considered with regards to why people want men of different interest for all sorts of special reasons.

First, Asian women tend to go along with white men because they feel that white men are more confident in themselves. They are not all that likely to feel negative or downbeat about themselves. They will instead be more interested in taking care of themselves and feeling more positive about what they are up to in life.

The next reason is that Asian men are too ordinary for some women. They want to find men who are more interesting and have open minds. They often go for American men to try and find people of interest for any purpose.

Another part involves the assertiveness of single US men. These men are much more direct and forward-thinking than other men in different parts of the world. They want to move along with their lives and want to focus less on attitudes and more on what they want. Asian women like men who are willing to go forward.

Some women even like these American men because they just find them to be a little more attractive than other people. They have more of an interest in the Western ideal of beauty because they find it to be so unique and different from what is in the Eastern part of the world. They like to focus on the beauty of men from this part of the world because it is so foreign and unique to them and caters to the urges that they have.

Asian ladies also like to find single American men because they are a little more social than Asian men. They like to find men who are not afraid of the world and want to talk with others. They like to share their feels and talk about what they want to talk about. It is an interesting feature that often adds to what women want out of their men.

The final reason involves the desire to just try something new. The concept of dating within one’s race is a traditional value that some women are just plain tired of doing. They want to go after other people from different walks of life just to see what it would be like to date them. It is an interesting concept that bears to be noticed for any purpose one has.

These are reasons that show just why Asian women for marriage or dating are so interested in American men above all others. It’s an interesting point about society that bears to be seen because people in different cultures have their own values for what they are most interested in.

Hi Asian Ladies, Tips to Know About Western Men

Nov7

Many Asian ladies are dating western men nowadays but do you know why? For those who do not know about western men, here are some of the tips about them. First, western men are very loving. This means that anyone who dates a western man is in for a big love that she cannot regret. Because western men are very loving, they will always treat you as queen whenever you are in a relationship with them.

Another thing about western men is that they provide for their ladies. As opposed to other men who would rather wait for their women to provide, a western man will provide everything for his woman. This includes expenses of the drinks and other meals that are taken when you are out on a date. If you succeed in marrying a western man, he will be more than willing to provide for you in marriage. In fact, he will always appreciate you staying at home as he goes out to look for cash.

Asian men who are married to western men say that these men work hard. This is primarily because they aspire to provide for their family. Because of this, they will never leave Asian ladies without provision once they are married to them. Furthermore, these men ensure that Asian women do not go out to work. They normally prefer to see that their ladies do not struggle to provide for the family.

Western men always involve their women in key decision making. Although there are some cases where western men do not necessarily have to tell their women everything, they normally consult them when making key decisions. This means that women who are married to western husbands are not always stressed to hear everything that is happening; they though get to know what their husband are doing whenever there is something that need their attention.

In most cases, western men are faithful which means that they are loyal to their wives. Once you are married to western husbands, you are sure to have a loyal relationship. Because of their loyalty, they are admired by many Asian women. As a matter of fact, at the Asian dating websites, these men are hotcakes in the market. Most ladies are looking for them as they know they have a great track record.

White man and Thai girls (Photo: google)

Another great thing about western men is the fact that they are jovial and friendly. These men are usually talkative and jovial always. Most Asian girls who are married to them say that they make a happy family. When they are at home, they talk freely to their women. Sometimes they can even crack jokes as they wait for the time to sleep.

It has been proven that western men value their family a lot. A wife is a treasure to western men and so do the children. A western man will always ensure that his family is well fed, taken care of and provided for from all aspects.

If you think that western men are a good catch, you need to visit Asian dating websites. These websites are full of western men who are waiting for you. Therefore do not just sit there and wish you had a western man; make a move and within no minutes you will have him on your hands. What is more is that Asian internet dating online is fast, effective and very flexible.