Asian-Asian & Asian-Western Couples – Discuss Before Getting Married

Jan10

There are some members at our Asian dating site asked me about what to do or things to discuss before getting married with a single woman or man they met online. So, I am writing this article to briefly discuss about this. This is based on my personal experience and what I’ve read from online tips. I’ve met my husband online 10 years ago and I like to share some advice.

Asian-Asian couple & marriage

It does not matter if you are an Asian man who met a woman and go back to your original hometown to get married or you are a western man who met an Asian woman, as well as you are an Asian lady who met a single man in the West, you should communicate about what your expectations about married life before jumping on it. Don’t expect the married life as bright as the light. There are some dark sides that you need to discuss with your significant partner.

Sex is the most important thing in your relationship so make sure you are completely satisfied. Some people are being single for a long time so when they have sex with their second half, they feel great and they think they are satisfied, but in fact, it is not. So, think about this matter as it is very important for your married life.
Home mortgage is the thing you need to talk with your future soul mate. If you live in the US, Canada, Australia or other Western countries and you own a house, most of us have an outstanding debt called home mortgage, then you need to briefly explain about this or she may not understand or get scared of the big debt you currently have. For example, you live in Los Angeles of California and buy a house for $400,000, put 20% for down payment and still owe $320,000. This is the big money in Asia, like 15 millions pesos in Philippines, 2 millions Chinese Yuan, 11 millions Thai Baht, 1.3 billions Cambodian Riel, 6.8 billions Vietnamese Dong and so on.
You and your partner may need to discuss about how many children are enough. Do you want kids or how many are questions you should ask your partner. Especially, when Asian men in the West or Western men get married with middle-aged Asian ladies (U40+) who are widowed or divorced, you guys should ask them about these questions.
Where to live is the question for a woman. You should as your fiancé about where to live. Does he own a house? Does he live with his parents and siblings? Ask him when you come to the West, where are you two going to live? In the West, most people are independent so they usually don’t live with their parents and/or siblings, unless they are poor who can’t afford their own place so they have to share the rent with their family.
For most of Christian Asian and Western people, they all believe in God. So, make sure you ask your partner what their religion is and if they want to join your Christian religion. Some people want to keep their own religion.
Household errands are the questions you don’t have to ask if you marry an Asian wife. Most Asian wives are perfect in household work like washing dishes, doing laundry, cooking meals, etc.
If you are an Asian man who gets married, then you know about tie family obligations. Most Asian people are tie with their family, siblings and relatives. Some of them don’t even need friends but family is just enough for them. If you are a Western man, then you should ask about this with her.
Career is also an important issue you need to discuss with your future partner. Most of Asian ladies don’t work after they have babies. They just stay home to handle errands and take care of the kids. So you need to talk to her about the busy lifestyle in the West, that she needs to work and share the bills with you.
When it comes to money, it is hard to ask but you should talk straightly about bank accounts and bill sharing with your future partner. Most married couples argue about this money issue so straight it out right now. Do you want to share a bank account or open an account under your own name? How about sharing bills like home mortgage, utilities, medical insurance, and etc.

Asian-Western Couples n Marriages (Google images)

Every year, there are many marriages from Asian-Asian singles and Western-Asian personals. When they come to the Western countries, including America, Canada, Australia, Italy, France, UK, and so on, there are about 25% couples broke. The major reason that causes them separated or divorced is the lack of communication which lead to wrong understanding from one of another. You need to understand that the lifestyle in the West is different from Asia. The United States of America is the land of opportunities for those who are smart and working hard.

Asian Women Have No Option To Marry An Oversea Husband

Dec6

If an Asian woman could marry a good man in Asia, then she will not find a foreign husband in America, Europe or Australia. In most of developing Asian nations like the Philippines, China, Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand, there is class distinction between the poor and the rich people. The rich class usually won’t marry the poor class. It is too hard for poor people to move up in a society. Most of the rich people have good connection with the government so they can work and succeed in their business.

Asian wife & husband at Christmas party

The poor Asian women usually find other ways to move up and get rich, especially marry an oversea spouse to immigrate to the West so they can work and make good money. Every year, there are more than 3,000 Vietnamese brides who come to the United States by marriage sponsor from their husbands. Most of these husbands are Vietnamese Americans or Viet Kieu USA who came back to their hometown and married these girls. In the Philippines, the number of marriages between Filipino men who live in the West (Pinoy) and local Filipina ladies are higher than the number of Vietnamese ladies who married Viet Kieu. Most of these women are below-averaged class who want to move up. Of course, Chinese brides who come to the US through marriage sponsor are the most.

There are some good and bad stories between these marriages. Many young Asian women are willing to accept the old husband whose age around their father’s age. Some beautiful and sexy single women in Asia accept ugly and old Asian men who live in the West because their goal is to come to the West to live. After they come to the USA, Canada, Australia or other European countries and became the permanent resident, they file a divorce. I think about 30% of such marriages are broken after they came to the new nation. Another reason is that most Asian men come back to their hometown and just marry beautiful and young girls so they are matched from the public point of view.

Back to our topic, most of Asian girls can’t find a good man there. If she could find a good husband in Asia, then she won’t leave the country. A good man can be defined as a man who love her and can help her family. In this case, she has a hard time to find that man because most of higher classes of men won’t marry the poor ladies. Most of these rich men think the poor women are gold-diggers so they won’t marry them. They want to find the wife whose is similar to theirs about material things. This is another reason that Asian ladies have no option but find a husband oversea.

An Asian woman is seeking a foreign husband who can help her parents and siblings. There is no way she can find such a good man in Asia who can do that. She must immigrate to a developed country so she can work and make money to help her parents, brothers and sisters. There are some husbands of these Asian women must send money to support their wife’s family back home on a monthly basis. Also, these Asian women come to the West try to make money and send back home to help their family as well.

Domestic violence is another reason that Asian women want to get married overseas. Low class men who are not educated usually treat women badly. They don’t have any respect for their wife. They control their wife too much. They get drunk almost every day. They can beat the wife if she dares to talk or argue with them. There are many such men in Asia. Most of Asian women are scared to get married by such guys.

On social networking sites like Facebook, Twitter, Google Plus and online dating sites like Asiandatenet, Asiandating or others, there are millions of single women looking for oversea men. They are seeking Asian men who live in America, Canada, Australia, Germany, Italy, France, and other European men. I personally think Asian women are going on the right track to find a husband oversea.

To all foreign Asian singles in US, how to find love online?

Sep6

Living in the United States of America (USA), Asian singles have a hard time to find their life partner. It is because the shortage of Asian people who are single in this country. Asian Americans are totaled about 5% of the entire American population. There are about 320,000,000 (320 millions) of American people in this country. Chinese, Indian, Filipino, Vietnamese, Korean, Japanese, Pakistani and Cambodian are the most crowded of popular in the US.

Asian American women

Asian Americans work hard to adapt with fast-paced lifestyle in this country. We don’t have much time to go out in flirting or get acquainted with others. Some people like to date or marry only on their own race so the chance is even harder. As I mentioned above, there are not many Asian singles to choose from. So, thousands of Asian single women and men use online dating sites like Asiandatenet.com or others to find love online. This is one of the most effective modern way to find a date nowadays.

The online dating service has become the modern method for every single Asian person who lives in the US. It is simple and easy. You sign up a profile and find whoever you like to meet with. The internet dating has endless possibilities that you can find a perfect match near you or those who live in another city or State. By clicking a few times, there are many Asian American girls and guys showing up in front of you and you only need to view each profile to go from there.

The first thing to find love online is to decide which dating site you build a profile with. Can you afford to pay about $30 or $50 a month? Then, you can go to paid services like Match.com, Chemistry.com, and so on. If you just want to try out a free site, then you can use Asiandatenet.com, Plentyoffish (POF), Okcupid, etc. It is up to you to choose which type of online dating sites you will register a personal ad with.

There are many Asian American singles just like you waiting to greet you online. In the old days, people like to gather in a bar or club to find short-term dates. However, Asian girls or guys don’t like to get married with people they meet at clubs or bars. This is the problem. Most singles at these places just try to have fun and they are not serious in building a lifelong relationship. Online dating services let you read each profile before you contact so you may know more than 50% of their characteristics before you contact.

Asian American woman at Monument in DC

Many Asian American men at Asiandatenet are open to single ladies back home as well. At online dating sites, you can find whoever you like to meet with. There is no limit. I have found a girlfriend at Asiandatenet.com last year and we have a nice relationship. She lives in Houston Texas where I live in Miami Florida. Love can make shorter distance. No joking but it is true.

If you are foreign Asian singles who live in America, then you should not be single. Don’t feel ashamed of yourself in seeking love online. All people have at least once in their lifetime tried online dating. There are thousands of happy relationships and marriages generated from the Asian dating services every year.

Don’t worry about that. Being single is a failure in life. America’s lifestyle is fast-paced which makes millions of Asians can’t find a date or relationship. Try 100% free dating service and find that special someone today. Have fun!

Why are Western Men (especially White Expats) Popular in Asia?

Jul12

Western men, especially White Expats, get a lot of attention from Asian girls in China, Japan, Singapore, North Korea, Indonesia, Vietnam, Thailand, Malaysia, Hong Kong, Philippines, and etc. They just walk on the road, doing nothing, and get all attention from local Asian women there. What’s wrong with these ladies?

We use terms like White Expats, foreign men, Western guys respectively on this article. They mean the same thing. Only some women call this while others call another name.

Western men & Asian ladies

Why do they treat these White foreign men that favor?

I have an Australian friend who lived in China for a few months. He found a Chinese girlfriend the first week. He said he didn’t do anything but she just came to him and started talking when he was walking in front of a food market. He just speaks English as a Native language and he is tall and white. No one knows he was laid off and have not found a job yet. He got all attention from local single women in China for just being a tall and White Expat. There are many Asian girls seeking American or other Western guys for marriage these days.

White foreign men are very popular in Asia because they were born and raised in greatest countries on the world. They are white, tall and sexy so most Asian ladies look at them with respects. No, this is the truth. If you are a Western man walking in China or the Philippines or other countries, then you will see how you are impressed by local Asian women over there. When you go to a bar, oh no, you’ll get all girls approach to make acquainted with you.

There are some advantages that White Expats have to attract local single Asian ladies:

Asian women are friendly towards Western men, especially Caucasians. They are very kind and polite to treat tourists and expats who are from the Western countries like America, Australia, Italy, Germany, UK, Canada and so on.
Most Western men are strongly in bed which is one of the favorites of some Asian women that you need to unleash it. Local Asian men will be rejected by small size. Some of single women in Asia have a wild sexual desires hidden in them, you are a white man so you will opt to unleash it.
A White Western man is considered as a “winning lottery” for an Asian woman. Many local women are living in poor economic condition so they want to marry with a White Expat to have better financial situation. Sometimes this turns out untrue because some Western guys are very poor.
Most White Expats are good people. This is true. They travel to Asia to have fun so they don’t want to cause troubles in a foreign country.
Caucasians treat women with respects and honor. Asian ladies think about this and it seems to be right. When they were born and raised in the West where strict rules are applied towards violence to women, so most of these guys never hit on their woman, no matter what.
When an Asian lady introduces her boyfriend or husband as a White foreign man to her parents, relatives or friends, she is judged as the utmost respects and talent.

There are more reasons why Western guys too popular in Asia. However, I have to say one bad side about a few guys who come to Asia and cheat on naive Asian women. Don’t do that. You guys have all advantages that local men don’t. Most Asian women are raised by traditional custom, one-woman-one-man, you shouldn’t hurt their feelings by cheating on them. So, Western men, especially white Expats are popular in Asia because they are viewed as the dream husbands for Asian women.

Why do single wealthy Asian ladies look for men in US, Canada & Australia for marriage?

Apr26

In Asia it is hard for rich ladies to find love and marriage because of their high standards for partners. Most of these wealthy Asian women choose the online dating sites to find their partner in the West.

Single wealthy Asian women

There are not many men in Asia who can meet these standards of rich women. Some of them are willing to pay a lot of money to find love online. They are either inherited from family wealth or successful in their business to be millionaires. Most of them are young, talented and beautiful in the outlook.

There are more Asian women using the online dating services to find love and marriage. There are millions of single ladies who signed up to find online love from these web sites. They don’t set high standards for partners who live in the West including America, Canada and Australia. They consider men in the West are the great men who live in great countries. They love the gender equality in these countries so they want to come there to live. Men in those countries are popular by the way they treat the woman.

Men in the U.S., Australia and Canada are viewed as high social status from the point of view for these Asian women. Most of them have learned the great Western culture so the way they live is different from local men in Asia. It does not matter how rich you are in Asia, you will be a boring housewife, caretaker for your children, and even a sex slave for your husband after marriage. Some wealthy ladies who live in luxury villas admitted the boring life, with nothing to do daily.

The rate for wealthy single Chinese women leaving China to emigrate to Australia, Canada and America is higher than other races such as Filipinos, Vietnamese, Thai, Cambodian, Indian, Pakistani and so on. There are also single Asian men who emigrate to these nations by business visas. Some of the most important reasons that these rich single people want to leave their hometown to live in the new Western country are the gender equality, cleaner air, fresh food, political freedom, and so on.

There is also financial related reasons that they want to live in these countries. They are rich so they want to live in a nation that is safe for them to keep the money and invest their money. In some countries in Asia, rich people worry about the financial distress because of insecure investment. You can make good money in a short time but also broke in a short time. The financial system is not secure.

So, the main points that wealthy Asian ladies looking to find guys in the West are the gender freedom, clean air, good and natural food, stable political situation, good future for their kids, and financial security. They set the high standards for partners so there are only a few Asian men meet that. If you are seeking a rich lady in Asia, then you can find them online now.

Asian internet dating market has been developing rapidly in the last few years. There are millions of single rich ladies in Asia posted their personal profiles to look for a great man in the West. Thousands of single rich Asian women seeking men in the U.S., Australia or Canada are waiting to meet their life partners online.

Meet Rich Single Chinese Women & Men Who Are Planning To Emigrate

Apr13

There are thousands of singles who live in Australia and US looking for find rich Chinese women and men who are planning to come to these nations. As you know rich Chinese buying visas in these countries is common. The question is, why are these rich Chinese people coming to the United States or Australia?

There are many reasons behind this, such as economics, society, education, environment, investment, and so on.

The US and Australia are the two countries that attract Chinese millionaires. Many of them have left the country and many are planning to emigrate. They either buy visas or look for marriage sponsors to come to these countries. Wealthy Chinese people fleeing China for US and Australia nations are very smart in doing business in these new countries. In America, a foreigner who invests 1/2 million in a business and has at least 10 American employees, is entitled to a green card (permanent resident).

What are pros and cons in these great nations such as US and Australia?

Generally speaking, those fleeing China are looking for a better life including good schools, clean air, strong legal system, stable political situation, better future for their children, and so on.

They will be taxed on all their wealth.

In China, there are many poor people while there are many multimillionaires. There are some people who earn about $6 a day while there are many people who earn $6,000 or more a day. Those who are rich trying to find a way to flee their country China to come to a great country like US or Australia. Every year, there are hundreds of Chinese millionaires buy visas and marriage-sponsored to come to these countries.

Rich Chinese woman in a private jet

Why Asia’s Rich Are Leaving Their Home Countries?

There are millions of Asian rich people fleeing their home countries to come to the West (mostly US and Canada). China is one example. Other wealthy people who are from the Philippines, Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia, Malaysia, Indonesia, Korea, India, Pakistan and others are seeking any way to come to the West. Some of the reasons for these rich people want to come to the US and Canada are pollution, tainted food and education. In China, they survey showed that more than 60% of rich people had already immigrated to another Western country.

Again, they want to live in the greatest countries in the world where they can enjoy fresh air, clean environment, good and clean food, freedom, and the best education for their children. Another reason that Asian rich people want to come to the US or Canada is to invest their money in real estate. Most cities that have these Asia’s rich who invest in real estate are Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York and Vancouver. They find any way to immigrate to these countries to live and invest their money, including giving birth in US or Canada to get automatic citizenship for their kids, investing in real estate to get citizenship and etc.

How do Chinese people love America?

There are hundreds of Chinese billionaires invest their money in the US real estate every year, especially in California, Texas and New York. The China’s rich love America because this is the greatest country on the world where it has “equal investment opportunity” for all people. In China, most of them must have connections with officials of the government to be successful and getting rich. That means they must give expensive gifts to officials in order to continue doing their businesses. So, their assets are not securely protected as if they live in the US. They like to invest in the US because there is no such “envelop of gift” when doing business. In America, if you have real talent, then you will succeed. So, Chinese investors like to invest their money in real estate in America because it is safe. The US is the first choice for Chinese investors who buy real estate. There are other countries as Australia and Canada that attract the China’s rich as well but America is the first country of choice.

Sales of US Real Estate to Foreign buyers

Why do rich Chinese people find love by using online dating sites?

In China, it is hard to millionaires or billionaires to find love and marriage. They set high standards on the their future soul mate because they are wealthy and successful themselves. Chinese women usually date or marry men who are better than them in everything, including education, knowledge, wealth status, materials, and so on. So, there are many single bachelorettes in China seeking love. It is easier for single rich men looking for women. They can don’t set that high standards on their future soul mate. However, rich Chinese women have a hard time to find that special someone. It is hard to find a single rich man in China because most of them are married or divorced and have children. These single bachelorettes are between 25 to 40 years old and they are looking for men who are on high social status, good physical condition, and not too old.

Rich Chinese women find love online (Photo: CNN)

So, these wealthy Chinese ladies are seeking love and marriage from online dating web sites. They focus on those men who live in China or those who live in America, Australia or Canada. There are some dating sites in China that focus on helping those multi-millionaires to find their special someone. There are millions of rich Chinese people who signed up at these web sites. There are also employees at these sites travel around the country to search for rich bachelorettes and ask them to join these sites. Their membership is too expensive, about $5,000 or up.

However, there are wealthy Chinese bachelorettes seeking single men in the US, Australia and Canada. They want to marry men oversea so that they can come to a great country where they can establish a family and invest their money. They want to get off China because they don’t feel safe about their wealth. So, these wealthy women are seeking Chinese men or native men in America or other Western countries.

If you are one of American or Australian citizens who want to find rich Chinese, it does not matter whether you are an Asian or native men, then you have some ways you can do, including friends and family’s introduction, PR, media, event planning or charity jobs, and online Chinese dating services.

Golden Tips Of How To Marry An Asian Millionaire

Mar12

There are more than 90 percent of single women who at least once in their life think about marrying a millionaire. To tell you one golden tip, you can meet and marry and Asian millionaire at ease. It is even easier if you are a white lady who want to meet and marry a millionaire Asian man.

You must remember that Hispanic millionaires are different from Asian. You need to understand about Asian culture before you meet one if you are non-Asian women. You can’t approach them the same way. To make friends with wealthy men, you should learn these tips. Asian rich men are careful in choosing the life partner. If you are one of single Asian ladies seeking an Asian millionaire, then you should know about this culture already. Most of Asian men are considered as “bossy” or “controlled” men. They don’t usually listen to your ideas. Especially for Asian millionaires who are successful in life, they are even more “bossy” and “controlled”. In fact, they are dominant. You must be submissive to be matched with an Asian millionaire husband.

European, American, Hispanic and Asian millionaires have different taste and preferences about women they select for a life partner. For example, American wealthy men like to marry celebrities or Hollywood stars. If you want to marry an American rich man, you must be beautiful, sexy and clean. Russian millionaire men like young and beautiful women. These ladies must smell good all the time. Arabian rich men love virgin women. English wealthy guys love models and they usually don’t get married with them.

Asian millionaire men are generally looking for beautiful, sexy and young women for marriage. There are Asian wealthy men in everywhere, Europe, the United States or Asia. Asian millionaires who live in America usually look for appealing and lovely white young women for marriage. They also look for beautiful and sexy Asian women. They like to marry submissive women. Again, they are dominant so they look for submissive ladies.

Where to go and meet an Asian millionaire?

You can find him at luxury restaurants and hotels or get a job that relates to PR, media, event planning or charity. Nowadays, you can find millionaire men at the Asian internet dating sites. Have fun and good luck!

Why do cross-cultural relationships run into racial strains?

Mar7

Cross cultural relationships usually run into racial prejudices. When people from different races date each other, there are some strains in such relationships. They can get over it if they know what they are doing. Nothing is wrong with such inter-racial relationships, however, people look at it with different or impressive eyes.

They have to know how they handle their relationships the right way. Where it comes from is thing you must know to handle such racial prejudices. It does not matter what color you are, whether you are an Asian, Hispanic, Black, White, handling such racial strains is not easy. It is different from each culture so you must use different strategy for your own case.

You must understand where you are from or where your partner is from. To deal with the problem, you should learn about that culture. You have to monitor and judge the strains accordingly. You are dealing with cultural differences so make sure you keep the body language in good standing. Don’t try to break the relationship and give it up. Of course, the most important issue is the respect other culture beliefs.

There are advantages and disadvantages about inter-racial relationships. You learn good things about another culture while your partner learn a new culture as well. So, try to be patient to treat each other in a good manner.

Cross cultural dating and relationships are established with increasing trend. People attract with others in different races. So, if you are the one who is attracted with different race, then go to free dating site Asiandatenet.com to find a relationship.

Why do Asian women find richer & smarter men than them to marry?

Jan25

Asian women usually find rich men to marry. There are some reasons behind this. The cultural custom is the main thing. Traditionally speaking, Asian ladies choose guys for marriage who must be wealthier than them. In fact, most of Asian women are submissive and men are dominant. So, they like to find a man who is higher or more knowledge than them about education level, background, understanding and so on. Most importantly, money is the main thing.

They find a big difference between marrying a rich man or a poor man. A rich man can provide a great lifestyle including material needs. A poor man can’t give their wife the material things in life. They have to take care their poor husbands, which most Asian ladies don’t want to do so. Love is one thing but marriage is different. Dating is different and living together is a big different. Most of Asian girls want to respect their husbands and be submissive to their husbands. In order to do that, their husbands must be on the higher educated and richer than them, certainly.

You have seen many Asian wives who have a high-school degree married guys who have bachelor or even master degree in education. There are many college girls who just look for men who graduated a few years ago, and so on. That means they usually find husbands who are better than them in everything. They are different from American couples that use different bank accounts after marriage. The wife uses her own account and the husband uses his own bank account. Most of Asian couples use the same bank account.

Asian ladies look for wealthier men than them because that’s the traditional custom in Asia origins. The husbands are the ones who go out and make money to support the family while the wives stay home to take care of children and house errands. On this century, there are millions of Asian women who have been born in the Western countries like America, Canada, Australia etc, they are still nurtured this traditional custom from their parents or grand-parents. Even though most of these ladies today work full time, they still want to seek a husband who is richer, smarter than them.

In the Western countries, thousands of Asian women who work in a restaurants, shopping centers, nail or barber shops and so on, looking for men who are like software engineers or other IT field. If you are a a barber, then it is hard to find a girl in this field. Most of single Asian women are looking for a richer and smarter man than them for marriage at Asian online dating services or at a bar or any other public places. I am sorry, guys, that’s the true.

Myths About Women In Vietnam & Vietnamese Men in the West (Viet Kieu)

Jan18

Many people are getting confused about why Vietnamese women in Vietnam like Vietnamese men who live in the West (Viet Kieu). There are some myths about this that I will briefly explain on this post. What you knew or heard about why single women in Vietnam like Vietnamese Western men may not be absolutely correct. Let’s start the myths and answers.

Vietnamese women

Vietnamese men in the West are popular in Vietnam because of their wealthy… not really true. As you know, there are many local men who are richer. These guys can spend hundreds of dollars in one night. They got money from their rich parents. Viet Kieu does not spend that much money in a night. They earned money from their hard work in the West so they spend with thorough care. Also, Viet Kieu are willing to marry with poor local girls as well while local men don’t do that. Gender equality is the important thing that Viet Kieu learned from the West. They are open with any girl for marriage.

Women in Viet Nam like Vietnamese men who live in US, Australia or Canada because of the way they treat women…true. Most of Viet Kieu are open-minded. They have been living in the West for long so they respect women and let their wives more freedom. They don’t “control” on their wives too much. They let their wives share ideas and discuss things in the family. They treat their wives with more respects than local men in Viet Nam.

Vietnamese women marry Vietkieu because of opportunities…true. There are many open opportunities that people can work and be successful. Vietnamese ladies like to get married with Vietnamese guys who live in the West so they can come to a new country and make money. There are not many jobs in Vietnam to earn as much money as in these Western countries. They are pursuing a dream to marry with a Viet Kieu to have a better future for themselves and their children.

So, I hope that this short article helps you to learn something about why single women in Vietnam like about Vietnamese guys in Western countries. If you have any question or suggestions, then please let me know. Thanks.

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