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Marriage Market Between Chinese Women From China and America

There are many single Chinese women in China (between 30 to 50 years old) while most of Chinese American women are married. This is the difference about marriage market in China and in the US. In China’s culture, women prefer to marry men who are higher educated than themselves while men prefer to marry women who are lower educated. However, there are many leftover Chinese ladies in China who can’t find a man for themselves. In America, most of Chinese women from 25 and older are married and have children. What’s going on?

Chinese girl from China

Misogyny is one of the reasons that Chinese men can’t find a woman, which result in many unmarried women in China. I have to say thanks to the sex-selective abortion, men outnumber women in this country. Another reason is that most women prefer to marry men in perfection or they stay singleton. They like to marry a man who has a home, good job and secured financial status. Many young Chinese women prefer to marry matured and divorced men who are rich so they are perfectly taken care of. However, buying a house in China is hard to low-class men which make many Chinese poor men have to find a foreign bride in Vietnam and etc.

Chinese American women or girls are treated with more respect because they live in the US. Most Chinese American men learned and applied the best American culture in treating and respecting the woman. I have to conclude that Chinese men in the US are much better than men in China. I mean, they work hard, go home after work, take care of their kids. On the other hand, many men in China go out with friends to drink after work, until drunk, get home, sleep. So, Chinese American guys are more responsible than Chinese men in China. That’s why Chinese American women are lucky to marry a good man out of many good Chinese men in the US. There is no way they can say bad things about Chinese men in America. So, most of Chinese women in America are married and happy.

Chinese girl from the US of America

Upper class of women in China have hard time to find a husband because they are more careful. They are educated and rich so they must find a man who is better than them. It is not easy to find such a man who meet their high set of standards. Time is getting by. They are getting 30s and being leftover. The issue in Chinese culture is that most men don’t marry old women who are over 30 years old. If you are thirty-something woman, then you have a hard time to be selected by men, unless you accept a lower-class man. In America, age is just a number. If you are 35 years old, then you can find a 39-year-old man. In other words, Chinese American men don’t care about that they must marry young women. They usually find a woman who is less than them a few years old.

In China, most women turn 28 usually enter a time of crisis. They feel fear and dread. They are fearful that they don’t have a chance for marriage after 28. They do whatever to find a man before this age. They worry about that. The marriage market is different from China and America. In the Western countries like Canada, Australia and the US, Chinese women study and work, earn a degree, then marry. They don’t care about whether they pass 28 or not. They care about what their career is after graduation. They know they will find a good man. Their parents fear and enter a time of crisis if their daughters are over 28 and unmarried.

Generally speaking, there are many unmarried women in China. They are called the leftover women. They are over 28 years old. They are educated and rich. Nowadays, there are some online Chinese dating networks that help these single women in China to find a man who is matched with their standards. These dating sites in China help the leftover women to find either men in China or Chinese American singles who live in the US.

Anyway, we are all Chinese women. If you live in China, then your marriage status is different from Chinese women in the US. The culture is different between two countries so the one’s behavior is different in terms of dating, relationship and marriage.

Chinese Women in Mainland China and Hong Kong about Dating & Marriage

Sep13

Chinese women in Mainland is different from women in Hong Kong. They are both Chinese but the way they act and live are not the same. There are some things you should know about these same race but act differently because they live in two different regions of China. This article will briefly explain the reasons they are different in terms of dating, relationship and marriage.

Mainland woman vs Hong Kong woman in China

Many Chinese women flock to Hong Kong to give birth every week, month and year. Hong Kongers are more modernized and independent than Chinese women. They work and take care of themselves and their family. Most Chinese wives stay home to take care of their kids while Hong Kong women go to work even after they have babies.

Hong Kong people always complain about how impolite Chinese women are when they come to Hong Kong, such as spit, cut in line, loud talk and other not-right public behavior standards. They were born and raised from a great country of Asia so they treat others with more modernized ways. Chinese ladies are from China so they get used to the low standards of public behavior which make them look funny in front of women in Hong Kong.

Almost every thing in Hong Kong is far better than in China, including education, economic, medical care, society and so on. No wondering why about 40% of Chinese pregnant women flock to Hong Kong to give birth in order to get the permanent residency in this region of China. When the children have this right, they have free education from 1st grade until 12th grade (High School graduation). Generally speaking, many Chinese women pursue the dream of marrying a man in Hong Kong. There are other benefits of being a Hong Konger that you can’t find as being a Chinese.

Every year, there are about 25 millions of Chinese men and women came to Hong Kong for working. Especially, pregnant women in China come to this country to give birth and get the right for permanent residency. This is one of the reasons rate Chinese are a low class.

In terms of dating and marriage, most Chinese single women just look for men in Hong Kong. Mainland girls think that getting married with a man in Hong Kong (HK) is like “winning a lottery”. In fact, there are thousands of young Chinese girls accept to get married with old men in HK. When they get to this country and obtained a permanent residency, they file a divorce. This happens and keep happening but many old and poor single men in Hong Kong are still interested in young Chinese wife in China.

For those Mainland ladies who already lived in HK, they are certainly looking for educated men in this country. They are not seeking Mainland men in HK, unless these guys are high educated and successful in business.

Generally speaking, women in HK set with high standards in terms of marriage. Most uneducated men are not their type. They are educated and successful women so they are looking for men who match with their standards. Therefore, many low-educated or poor men in HK must go for single women in Mainland or other countries like Philippines or Vietnam.

There are many of Chinese women in China and Hong Kong signed up their profiles to look for single men at Asiandatenet.com. Chinese women in Mainland and Hong Kong are different in terms of dating and marriage because they are born and raised in two different regions of China.

Why are Chinese American Men Too Popular in the US & China?

Apr25

Chinese American men are too popular in the US because they are inherited the goodies from famous movie Asian stars such as Bruce Lee, Jackie Chan, Jet Li, Donnie Jen and so on. If you are an Asian man who talks with Caucasians, then they will ask you “Are you Chinese” but not “Are you Thai or Are you Japanese?”. Chinese men are popular in America, really. They are successful and high educated. Many of them married white girls as well. They have learned the Americanized culture so they act just like native Americans, plus their rooted cultural values, which make them the ideal gentlemen for any girl.

Chinese man in Shanghai China

I don’t want to go in detailed about the outlook but focus on the characteristic and traits. I don’t say Chinese men are handsome because their faces look flat with low noses and eye sockets. Many Western women prefer men to have chest hair but Chinese guys don’t. Chinese men are not very gentle and humorous as Western men because they control which make them the “bossy” of the house. However, their traits are perfect for any woman who is being submissive. Most Chinese American guys can take good care of their wives, no doubt about that.

China-born men who migrated to the US when they were over 18 years old are still applying the Chinese family rules over their wives. Most of Chinese men who were born in America are excellent in terms of being a gentleman because they always apply “Ladies first” rule. Ladies love gentlemen, you know?

If you travel to China, take a bus, you seldom see a Chinese man give up his seat for a pregnant woman. This is not nice at all. It is about the cultural values from China, where boys are valued as more important than girls. I personally think that men in China have many shortcomings while Chinese American men have so much goodies. Domestic violence happens between couples every single day in China. In America, you don’t see such domestic violence between Chinese husbands and wives. You rarely see that.

Chinese man in the US

In terms of marriage, most Chinese men prefer to have traditional wife who is submissive. However, when they live in the US, they are not traditional anymore because they have to work hard to pay the bills. They can’t stay home and live with their husband’s income. That doesn’t work anymore. Every single Chinese woman must work to help her husband raise the family. She can’t be submissive like traditional Chinese women. Ah, this is one of the reasons many Chinese American go back to China to marry real traditional girls and bring them to the US every year.

Every man has different concepts about love, relationship and marriage. Some of them don’t like to marry a woman who keep spying on them all the time, check their phone records every day, check who they call every single time, and so on. But there are some Chinese men prefer to marry a traditional girl who is submissive and let them take lead of the family. It doesn’t matter what they say, they don’t want the wife to argue but accept it as is.

It doesn’t matter where you view the Chinese men, they have the same goodies as:

1. They want serious relationship. If you are a White girl, you think about why they want a relationship too fast. You want to enjoy the dating process in a more relaxed way. However, Chinese men want to find a date that could lead to a relationship as fast as it can.

2. He is jealous. If you are too friendly with other male friends, then he is jealous. However, I think this is a good thing because it is proven he loves you to the bottom of his heart.

3. Equality doesn’t apply. A Chinese man can take care of you and the kids as long as he can. If you try to be equal in sharing the home bills, then you may upset him. He can take care of that by himself.

Generally speaking, Chinese American men are too popular in the US and China because they have learned both great cultural values to make them the perfect gentlemen for girls. Also, they can make good money in the US so they can spend a lot when they go back to China. Another thing is that Chinese American guys can marry Chinese local girls and sponsor them to America. I have seen many rich single Chinese women want to leave China to migrate to the US. They are daughters of rich families, high-educated parents, high-level officials, and business people. So, Chinese American men are the great bridge who can bring these rich women in China to America legally.

Why are Old Chinese Men the Ideal Husbands for Single Women in China?

Dec27

If you ask a Chinese woman about the ideal husband she wants to marry, then the answer will be the middle-aged man who is around 40 years old, successful in life, as well as who have a car and a house. A divorced Chinese man is the more preferable husband than a single man toward women in China in terms of choosing the best husband. Most of old men have male traits that young men don’t have. However, there are many unmarried ladies in this country because of these picky choice. They are “lelftover” or shang nu women who are over 28 years old and unmarried.

Old Chinese man and young woman

It is hard to find such a man who is available in China. If they are 40 and successful, then most of them are married. However, they usually have love affairs with other young women. This is another issue that single ladies are afraid of. Since Chinese girls set high standards on seeking a husband, most of them are still not married. So they have to sign up their personal ads through online dating services in China to find such a good husband. They’d rather stay single but don’t want to marry a “bad” man. From these Chinese dating sites, they are in hope to find a middle-aged man who owns a house and have a car so they are good taken care of.

Again, it is not easy to find such men in China. Most of single ladies also look for Chinese men who live in the West. This is an easier way. Nowadays, there are many single old Chinese American, Australian, Canadian men who are single and looking for a wife back home. I have to define Chinese men who live in USA, Australia, Canada, France and others so you can understand more about them. They are immigrants along with their descendants from Mainland China, Hong Kong, Macau, Taiwan, and others. Most of these guys have a hard time to find a young Chinese wife in the West so they are looking for in their hometown. This is the excellent choice for single young women back home because they are perfectly matched.

Chinese girls want to have security in life. They want to live with a man who can take care of them on safety about finance. In China, most single women are adviced to stay away from Phoenix men who discriminate and strictly choose the future wife. They are the guys who try hard in life for succeed in career so they don’t get married with less qualified than them. If a lady is not rich, then she won’t be qualified for the phoenix men.

Single girls in China have traditional thoughts about marriage. They think marriage as a lifetime commitment so divorce is shameful for the family. People have tie family relationship so they want to find a husband for life. That’s why they are looking for an old and success husbands. If you search for a Chinese single lady in China and drop her a message and you are the same or older than her 5 years old, then you won’t get a reply from her. She thinks that you are not matured enough for her. This is the reason that most young Chinese single women seeking a husband who is at least 10 years older than them.

Finally, I personally think that Chinese women have a hard time in choosing a marriage partner. There are many difficult standards they set about the husband that are getting married in the future. I suggest that single Chinese girls should use the internet dating sites to help them find such a man. Don’t just rely on introductions from relatives or friends, they must take action to find their dream husband. Age is getting older, you know?

So, old Chinese men are the ideal husbands for single, divorced or widow women in China because of their secured financial status and materials.

Asian Women Have No Option To Marry An Oversea Husband

Dec6

If an Asian woman could marry a good man in Asia, then she will not find a foreign husband in America, Europe or Australia. In most of developing Asian nations like the Philippines, China, Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand, there is class distinction between the poor and the rich people. The rich class usually won’t marry the poor class. It is too hard for poor people to move up in a society. Most of the rich people have good connection with the government so they can work and succeed in their business.

Asian wife & husband at Christmas party

The poor Asian women usually find other ways to move up and get rich, especially marry an oversea spouse to immigrate to the West so they can work and make good money. Every year, there are more than 3,000 Vietnamese brides who come to the United States by marriage sponsor from their husbands. Most of these husbands are Vietnamese Americans or Viet Kieu USA who came back to their hometown and married these girls. In the Philippines, the number of marriages between Filipino men who live in the West (Pinoy) and local Filipina ladies are higher than the number of Vietnamese ladies who married Viet Kieu. Most of these women are below-averaged class who want to move up. Of course, Chinese brides who come to the US through marriage sponsor are the most.

There are some good and bad stories between these marriages. Many young Asian women are willing to accept the old husband whose age around their father’s age. Some beautiful and sexy single women in Asia accept ugly and old Asian men who live in the West because their goal is to come to the West to live. After they come to the USA, Canada, Australia or other European countries and became the permanent resident, they file a divorce. I think about 30% of such marriages are broken after they came to the new nation. Another reason is that most Asian men come back to their hometown and just marry beautiful and young girls so they are matched from the public point of view.

Back to our topic, most of Asian girls can’t find a good man there. If she could find a good husband in Asia, then she won’t leave the country. A good man can be defined as a man who love her and can help her family. In this case, she has a hard time to find that man because most of higher classes of men won’t marry the poor ladies. Most of these rich men think the poor women are gold-diggers so they won’t marry them. They want to find the wife whose is similar to theirs about material things. This is another reason that Asian ladies have no option but find a husband oversea.

An Asian woman is seeking a foreign husband who can help her parents and siblings. There is no way she can find such a good man in Asia who can do that. She must immigrate to a developed country so she can work and make money to help her parents, brothers and sisters. There are some husbands of these Asian women must send money to support their wife’s family back home on a monthly basis. Also, these Asian women come to the West try to make money and send back home to help their family as well.

Domestic violence is another reason that Asian women want to get married overseas. Low class men who are not educated usually treat women badly. They don’t have any respect for their wife. They control their wife too much. They get drunk almost every day. They can beat the wife if she dares to talk or argue with them. There are many such men in Asia. Most of Asian women are scared to get married by such guys.

On social networking sites like Facebook, Twitter, Google Plus and online dating sites like Asiandatenet, Asiandating or others, there are millions of single women looking for oversea men. They are seeking Asian men who live in America, Canada, Australia, Germany, Italy, France, and other European men. I personally think Asian women are going on the right track to find a husband oversea.

To all Single Chinese Women – a Secret to Find a Husband in 30 Days

Nov22

Most over 25-years-old women in China are stressful and pressured to get married because they don’t want to be in the list of Shang-Nu or leftover. Single Chinese women in this country who are over 25 years old are eagerly seeking help from marriage experts of how to get hitched. Unmarried women at this age become societal pressures that many of them don’t dare to go out in public. They don’t have enough confidence to look at their friends who are married and have kids.

Leftover women in China – Unmarried Chinese ladies

It’s about culture. Chinese women are traditionally married early in their life. When a woman is over 26 years old, she is considered a Shang-Nu or “leftover woman” in the society. This is the insult for those women, you know? That’s the attitude that people view such unmarried women who are not chosen by men. They are stressful and usually find a way to get hitched. They don’t want to be “leftover women” in China. Chinese people don’t have sympathy for these leftover women.

In China, if you are a woman then you should get married before you approach 25. It does not matter what level of education you are pursuing, getting married is the most important thing you should do. There are many successful women in China in their career. They are not married and they become societal pressures. It is hard to them to find a man with high standards now. When it comes to pick up a counterpart, they set high standards. So, they are left over women because they are too successful.

Many experts who have been helping single women in China to find a husband but it is hard. They guarantee that these Chinese ladies will find a life partner in 90 days. I personally doubt about the high success rate of these programs. Seeking a boyfriend or a husband is not about the same method that you read from a written book. Every woman has different concepts about how to choose their life partner. As you know some single ladies in China are in a rush of finding a husband so they chose the wrong guy and file divorced after marriage.

I personally think that you’d rather live alone and be happy than live unhappily with a husband you don’t love. Being a leftover Chinese girl is nothing wrong or humiliated. You should not care much about what the society view on you. You must live for yourself. Don’t rush into finding a boyfriend that you don’t have feeling for. You will regret later on. It takes time to find that special someone.

How do single women in China find a husband?

Chinese woman n man at Christimas tree

Social networking sites and online dating services are the solution for single women in China to get hitched. You are the boss of your time in using these websites to find your significant partner. Within 30 days, you can find a boyfriend that you love and he is your lifelong counterpart. No experts help here, you do your own thing. You are the one who control your own destiny. Don’t listen to other people. When it comes to love and marriage, you must go and find it by yourself.

Days 1-5: You sign up a profile at a social networking site or a China dating site such as Asiandatenet.com or others. Waiting to get approved takes sometime. You should be honest on your profile. You also need to post your most current pictures on it. You will receive emails from men who want to make friends with you. You only reply to guys whom you like to move on.

Days 6-10: You ask these guys to video chat online via Skype, Yahoo Messenger, Tango, Viber and so on to know their face. You make sure they are real and sweet. You keep chatting with them for a few times. You decide to keep the best guys only to continue. Keep talking and chatting with these men and select two best ones.

Days 11-15: It is time to meet face to face with these two best men. You must meet each single man in different time. Precaution is the big plus. Just ask them to meet in public places like restaurants, malls and etc. When you meet each other them, try to judge him carefully by the way he talks, wears and act.

Days 16-20: You should go out with these men again. This is the second date. Keep judging him again.

Days 21-25: Continue going out with them to help you make an important decision to pick the right man.

Days 26-30: Ask them to take you to visit their family. Meet their parents and siblings and make decision for the best man who is your boyfriend and a husband in the future.

That’s the secrets for a single Chinese woman to find a husband in 30 days.

How To Find Japanese Women Seeking Men Online At Internet Dating Sites?

Jun21

Japan is a developed country in which people living in fast-pace lifestyle so they don’t have time to search their soul mate. Japanese singles use the internet dating sites to sign up a profile and meet their life partner nowadays. That’s the most easiest and effective way to find single Japanese women seeking men online today.

Japanese women (Hara Hachibunme) (From Wikilamdep)

You can find Japanese single women online in a matter of minutes. I can show you how to do it. The first thing you do is to sign up a profile at free Japanese dating sites such as Asiandatenet.com or others, ignore the expensive dating services where you have to pay too much membership fee. I am speaking of free Asian dating websites that promise to help you with a single woman in Japan.

Most of Japanese ladies who signed up online are those who don’t trust guys in a bar or club. They are tired of short-term dates which last for one or two nights. They are no longer interested in men in clubs or bars who just look for sex, but no love or relationship. They are searching for men online who are ready to settle down a long term relationship which leads to marriage. Are you one of those? You can find a sweet lady online today.

Single women in Japan like the idea of having security in their relationship so they go online dating sites to find that perfect man. From these internet dating services, they can read man’s profiles and find a match before they contact them. Even though if you contact them first, they still read your profile to learn about your personal preferences before they answer your message.

Learn about Japanese women

It is a must. If you are a Japanese man, then you will sleep through it. For Western or foreign men, you guys need to learn about what Japanese women want in a man before you try to date one. They are one of the most beautiful women on the world. Most of Japanese women tend not to like foreign men very much, they do prefer to choose Japanese men for their own life mate. That’s the truth.

Most of Japanese women have big problems to speak English. Some of them do speak English but with strong accent so it is hard to understand. If you are a non-Japanese man, then you will have a hard time to date a single woman in Japan.

Some of Japanese women who tend to be interested in foreign men go to English pubs. You can hook up with a chick at these places. However, these ladies are not as “good” as the ones you meet in other places like school, shopping centers or online dating services.

Japanese women are not submissive. If you are a non-Japanese men who used to date Asian ladies like Filipina, Thai, Chinese, then you will see big differences in Japanese women. They are independent ladies. They don’t need you to take care of them about materials and make them listen to you. This is wrong understanding about ladies in Japan.

Go to online dating sites to find Japanese women

There are many ways to find them, like markets, movie theaters, parks, Church, schools, and so on but the best way is the online method. If you want to find Japanese single women, then you can go to the internet dating sites to find them.

Why do single wealthy Asian ladies look for men in US, Canada & Australia for marriage?

Apr26

In Asia it is hard for rich ladies to find love and marriage because of their high standards for partners. Most of these wealthy Asian women choose the online dating sites to find their partner in the West.

Single wealthy Asian women

There are not many men in Asia who can meet these standards of rich women. Some of them are willing to pay a lot of money to find love online. They are either inherited from family wealth or successful in their business to be millionaires. Most of them are young, talented and beautiful in the outlook.

There are more Asian women using the online dating services to find love and marriage. There are millions of single ladies who signed up to find online love from these web sites. They don’t set high standards for partners who live in the West including America, Canada and Australia. They consider men in the West are the great men who live in great countries. They love the gender equality in these countries so they want to come there to live. Men in those countries are popular by the way they treat the woman.

Men in the U.S., Australia and Canada are viewed as high social status from the point of view for these Asian women. Most of them have learned the great Western culture so the way they live is different from local men in Asia. It does not matter how rich you are in Asia, you will be a boring housewife, caretaker for your children, and even a sex slave for your husband after marriage. Some wealthy ladies who live in luxury villas admitted the boring life, with nothing to do daily.

The rate for wealthy single Chinese women leaving China to emigrate to Australia, Canada and America is higher than other races such as Filipinos, Vietnamese, Thai, Cambodian, Indian, Pakistani and so on. There are also single Asian men who emigrate to these nations by business visas. Some of the most important reasons that these rich single people want to leave their hometown to live in the new Western country are the gender equality, cleaner air, fresh food, political freedom, and so on.

There is also financial related reasons that they want to live in these countries. They are rich so they want to live in a nation that is safe for them to keep the money and invest their money. In some countries in Asia, rich people worry about the financial distress because of insecure investment. You can make good money in a short time but also broke in a short time. The financial system is not secure.

So, the main points that wealthy Asian ladies looking to find guys in the West are the gender freedom, clean air, good and natural food, stable political situation, good future for their kids, and financial security. They set the high standards for partners so there are only a few Asian men meet that. If you are seeking a rich lady in Asia, then you can find them online now.

Asian internet dating market has been developing rapidly in the last few years. There are millions of single rich ladies in Asia posted their personal profiles to look for a great man in the West. Thousands of single rich Asian women seeking men in the U.S., Australia or Canada are waiting to meet their life partners online.

Meet Rich Single Chinese Women & Men Who Are Planning To Emigrate

Apr13

There are thousands of singles who live in Australia and US looking for find rich Chinese women and men who are planning to come to these nations. As you know rich Chinese buying visas in these countries is common. The question is, why are these rich Chinese people coming to the United States or Australia?

There are many reasons behind this, such as economics, society, education, environment, investment, and so on.

The US and Australia are the two countries that attract Chinese millionaires. Many of them have left the country and many are planning to emigrate. They either buy visas or look for marriage sponsors to come to these countries. Wealthy Chinese people fleeing China for US and Australia nations are very smart in doing business in these new countries. In America, a foreigner who invests 1/2 million in a business and has at least 10 American employees, is entitled to a green card (permanent resident).

What are pros and cons in these great nations such as US and Australia?

Generally speaking, those fleeing China are looking for a better life including good schools, clean air, strong legal system, stable political situation, better future for their children, and so on.

They will be taxed on all their wealth.

In China, there are many poor people while there are many multimillionaires. There are some people who earn about $6 a day while there are many people who earn $6,000 or more a day. Those who are rich trying to find a way to flee their country China to come to a great country like US or Australia. Every year, there are hundreds of Chinese millionaires buy visas and marriage-sponsored to come to these countries.

Rich Chinese woman in a private jet

Why Asia’s Rich Are Leaving Their Home Countries?

There are millions of Asian rich people fleeing their home countries to come to the West (mostly US and Canada). China is one example. Other wealthy people who are from the Philippines, Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia, Malaysia, Indonesia, Korea, India, Pakistan and others are seeking any way to come to the West. Some of the reasons for these rich people want to come to the US and Canada are pollution, tainted food and education. In China, they survey showed that more than 60% of rich people had already immigrated to another Western country.

Again, they want to live in the greatest countries in the world where they can enjoy fresh air, clean environment, good and clean food, freedom, and the best education for their children. Another reason that Asian rich people want to come to the US or Canada is to invest their money in real estate. Most cities that have these Asia’s rich who invest in real estate are Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York and Vancouver. They find any way to immigrate to these countries to live and invest their money, including giving birth in US or Canada to get automatic citizenship for their kids, investing in real estate to get citizenship and etc.

How do Chinese people love America?

There are hundreds of Chinese billionaires invest their money in the US real estate every year, especially in California, Texas and New York. The China’s rich love America because this is the greatest country on the world where it has “equal investment opportunity” for all people. In China, most of them must have connections with officials of the government to be successful and getting rich. That means they must give expensive gifts to officials in order to continue doing their businesses. So, their assets are not securely protected as if they live in the US. They like to invest in the US because there is no such “envelop of gift” when doing business. In America, if you have real talent, then you will succeed. So, Chinese investors like to invest their money in real estate in America because it is safe. The US is the first choice for Chinese investors who buy real estate. There are other countries as Australia and Canada that attract the China’s rich as well but America is the first country of choice.

Sales of US Real Estate to Foreign buyers

Why do rich Chinese people find love by using online dating sites?

In China, it is hard to millionaires or billionaires to find love and marriage. They set high standards on the their future soul mate because they are wealthy and successful themselves. Chinese women usually date or marry men who are better than them in everything, including education, knowledge, wealth status, materials, and so on. So, there are many single bachelorettes in China seeking love. It is easier for single rich men looking for women. They can don’t set that high standards on their future soul mate. However, rich Chinese women have a hard time to find that special someone. It is hard to find a single rich man in China because most of them are married or divorced and have children. These single bachelorettes are between 25 to 40 years old and they are looking for men who are on high social status, good physical condition, and not too old.

Rich Chinese women find love online (Photo: CNN)

So, these wealthy Chinese ladies are seeking love and marriage from online dating web sites. They focus on those men who live in China or those who live in America, Australia or Canada. There are some dating sites in China that focus on helping those multi-millionaires to find their special someone. There are millions of rich Chinese people who signed up at these web sites. There are also employees at these sites travel around the country to search for rich bachelorettes and ask them to join these sites. Their membership is too expensive, about $5,000 or up.

However, there are wealthy Chinese bachelorettes seeking single men in the US, Australia and Canada. They want to marry men oversea so that they can come to a great country where they can establish a family and invest their money. They want to get off China because they don’t feel safe about their wealth. So, these wealthy women are seeking Chinese men or native men in America or other Western countries.

If you are one of American or Australian citizens who want to find rich Chinese, it does not matter whether you are an Asian or native men, then you have some ways you can do, including friends and family’s introduction, PR, media, event planning or charity jobs, and online Chinese dating services.

Myths About Asian Men and Western Women

Dec13

Let’s go find out, Ladies. There are some confuses about Asian men who live in Asia or the West. Many ladies complain about Asian guys, what they like and how they act in terms of dating, relationship, sex and so on. I am writing this article to briefly explain some myths about them. When you have questions in mind, read these answers may help to clear your brain. This is my personal experience so it is not about every Asian man out there. Every guy has different concept and opinion so again, this is based on my own experience. I don’t want those rumors keep passing on and on.

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Black women said that Asian men don’t like to date or sleep with them. This is completely untrue. Last week, I went to McDonalds to get a hamburger, I saw a Chinese guy with a black wife sitting on the table next to me. They have a daughter who is half black and half Chinese, this kid is so beautiful. Generally speaking, every man has different tastes. Some of them may like only Filipino ladies, some of them like white ladies and some of them like black women. Again, this is a myth, not true.

Asian men have small and short “bananas”. It is 95% correct. I agree with you on this. If a Western man has a 8-inch banana on average, then an Asian man has a 6-inch banana. However, it does not mean that Asian guys don’t perform good sex. Again, every man is different. Some ladies complained they had a hard time to gain an orgasm when making love with an Asian guy. I think this is not always about the size, but about how they feel during the intercourse. I agree with you for some guys in Asia don’t take time for you on bed after marriage. Asian men who live in the West know how to make it perfect. I think it also depends on what a lady wants. So, just tell him what you want, then he will make you satisfied. In fact, Asian guys are very romantic in different ways, so try to find out about that.

Asian culture is different from the West. Even those who were born in the West still nurtured the culture from their parents or grand parents. Most of Asian guys don’t like to date or marry a lady who is smarter than them. They want to control their woman. This is right. They don’t want to look bad if they have a better, smarter and stronger wife on public. So, most Asian ladies prefer to let their man take the lead in the family. It does not matter whether she is more intelligent than her husband or not, he is the leader of the family.

An Asian man ties with his family and relatives. This is absolutely correct. This is part of the culture. In Asia, some families live together in a house. Some houses have more than 10 people. This is normal. Most white or black ladies complain about this too. When dating an Asian boyfriend, his family is the hardest part to deal with. Sometimes he just listens to his parents and stick with it. He does not listen to his girlfriend. Also, his parents call him and control him too much. Also, his parents ask him to do this, do that, help this brother and sister, and so on. This is, again, part of Asian culture.

“Bossy” and “control” are two things that people apply for Asian guys and Black women. Come on guys, this is not always true. In less developed countries like the Philippines, Vietnam or Thailand, most men do “bossy” and control their wives. In the West like America or Canada, Black ladies are “bossy” and try to control their men. So, if an Asian man married a Black woman, then how’s it going to happen between them? Both are “bossy” and dominating. They both want to take a lead in a family. Nothing is really happening, guys. I have to tell you one thing that I learned, every family has one submissive person, the other is dominating. You know what I am saying?

Asian men do not like fat women. This is true. Most of Asian guys are from 5’3 to 5’8 and 130 to 160 lbs. They are thin and small. So they can’t date a 200 lb woman. As mentioned above, most of Asian guys prefer to date or marry a girl who is shorter and lighter than them. Western girls complain about it is hard to find a 6’0 feet Asian guy. That’s right. it is hard. That’s why you see interracial couples between Asian men and small or short white or black ladies.

In conclusion, what I wrote on this article based on my own experience and what I read online. It may be correct in most guys but not in some. It is up to you to judge the matter. One important thing about Asian men, they are one-men-one-woman type of men. What do you think? Just tell me about it.