Vietnamese Mail Order Brides in China, Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan & South Korea

Aug2

Vietnamese mail order brides in China, Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan & South Korea have been talking a lot lately because it resulted many miserable relationships. Nowadays such Vietnam’s mail order bride business is booming in this country because many Vietnamese girls (especially those who live in the countryside) still dream to marry a foreign husband. I use women, ladies and girls across this article because some unmarried women in Viet Nam don’t like to be called “women”.

Vietnamese mail order brides weddings

Look at this advertisement in Vietnam, “She is a virgin, fixed price, marry her in a few months, you’ll get a new bride if she runs away from you”. Do they consider a human being as an item for sale?

Vietnamese women wait every minute, hour and day for her opportunity to meet a prospective foreign husband.

Why are they interested to get marry with a foreign husband that much?

Vietnamese Mail Order Bride Ad

It is the power of money. Most of Vietnamese girls who want to marry a Chinese, Singaporean, Malaysian, Taiwanese and Korean husband are poor. They don’t see a bright future in Vietnam. They want to help their parents and siblings so the only way is to get married with a foreign man. However, if there is a demand, then there is a supply. If you go to some mail order brides agencies or brokers in China, Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan & South Korea, you will notice some silly ads like “She is a virgin, $4,000, fixed price” or “Vietnamese women, select a bride, travel to Vietnam, get married, $4,500” and etc. That means foreign men can go to Viet Nam, choose the bride and get married with her for that amount of money. The bride can get about 75% of that money from her bride-groom and the 25% go to the brokers.

Most of these Vietnamese women come from poor rural villages, have less knowledge and low education. They favor the opportunity to live abroad so they take the risk to marry a foreign husband. They think getting married with a man overseas is the best option because they have money to support their family and help their siblings. As a result, many marriages turn out miserably. Many Vietnamese wives are beaten up, used as a sex slave, murdered by their husbands.

Vietnamese wife

There is no strict rules to prevent such marriages because these Vietnamese ladies marry foreign husbands voluntarily. The language barrier is the main problem. They don’t have knowledge about living abroad in a new country. They think getting married with a husband oversea and making money in a new country is easy. They don’t have a choice.

Most of foreign men marrying single Vietnamese girls are farmers and fishermen who can’t find a wife in their local area. They are left behind by local girls so they have to find a Vietnamese wife who is simple so they can control her.

However, there are some marriages work out very well. There are some successful Vietnamese women who got married with foreign men.

I recommend both Vietnamese girls and foreign men should not get married with each other by the marriage agencies. You guys can find each other at online dating sites like Asiandatenet.com or other free Asian date websites. You can find your life mate in Vietnam, China, Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan & South Korea by yourself without going through mail order brides services.

Golden Traits About White Men That Thai Girls Love

Jul26

White men have some golden traits that most Thai girls love about. No wonder why thousands of single foreign men in the West travel to Thailand for meeting these Thai women. They just speak English and being white, then get crush on girls. On this article, I use the words “girls”, “women” or “ladies” interchangeably because women in Asia prefer to be called “girls” if they are not married.

White man and Thai girls (Photo: Flickr)

If you’ve ever been in Bangkok or other cities as Patpong, Nana and so on, then you will see Thai girls and White men couples standing around the touristy places. Almost every White man has a Thai woman. Of course, some of these girls are prostitutes. The truth is, some Western men come to Thailand on tourism because of prostitution of yellow-fever ladies. There are some reasons that Thai women marry Western men. However, I won’t discuss about this on this article but about golden characteristics of White guys that most Thai ladies fall on.

They view White guys with impressive eyes because they think these guys are affluent. Are they rich? I have to say some are rich and some are average and some are poor. It depends on where do you compare these guys with local guys. Some old men live on their social security money, like $900 a month. This amount of money is very small in Canada, Australia or America. However, $900 is about 30,000 THB in Thailand so it is huge. People who earn about 30,000 THB in Thailand are considered above average.

White male tourists are popular in Thailand that most Thai girls want to be with. They are popular in their characteristics about treating the woman with respects. They let the woman freely speak and share ideas. They don’t control on the woman but let her do whatever she likes to do. And, they are strong in bed.

Being with a White man is the pride from public. This is absolutely right. When a Thai lady dating a White guy, she is proud of herself from public’s view. People look at her with impress for being with the most beautiful guy on the world. So, most single women in Thailand are proud to date with White expats.

White men are considered better husbands who take responsibility in the family. I have to tell you one truth about Thai men. They work hard to support their family and children. However, most of them don’t treat their wife as Western men do. After work, they gather with male friends and drink and get drunk. Also, they have mistresses after married for awhile. This is what most ladies don’t like to get married with local men at all.

White men can sponsor their wives to the West. This is another golden trait of these guys. Many Thai ladies dream about coming to the West to live. They can work and make good money to help their parents and siblings back home. They can enjoy breathing fresh air and organic food. Their children can go to the best schools. And, they can enjoy other good things when they come to the West.

In conclusion, I am writing this article based on my personal knowledge and what I read online. I don’t personally intent to pick out any group of people. Nowadays, there are many White men and Thai women signed up at Thai online dating sites like Asiandatenet.com or others to find each other. Above is most reasons that Thai girls love about White men for marriage.

Why are Western Men (especially White Expats) Popular in Asia?

Jul12

Western men, especially White Expats, get a lot of attention from Asian girls in China, Japan, Singapore, North Korea, Indonesia, Vietnam, Thailand, Malaysia, Hong Kong, Philippines, and etc. They just walk on the road, doing nothing, and get all attention from local Asian women there. What’s wrong with these ladies?

We use terms like White Expats, foreign men, Western guys respectively on this article. They mean the same thing. Only some women call this while others call another name.

Western men & Asian ladies

Why do they treat these White foreign men that favor?

I have an Australian friend who lived in China for a few months. He found a Chinese girlfriend the first week. He said he didn’t do anything but she just came to him and started talking when he was walking in front of a food market. He just speaks English as a Native language and he is tall and white. No one knows he was laid off and have not found a job yet. He got all attention from local single women in China for just being a tall and White Expat. There are many Asian girls seeking American or other Western guys for marriage these days.

White foreign men are very popular in Asia because they were born and raised in greatest countries on the world. They are white, tall and sexy so most Asian ladies look at them with respects. No, this is the truth. If you are a Western man walking in China or the Philippines or other countries, then you will see how you are impressed by local Asian women over there. When you go to a bar, oh no, you’ll get all girls approach to make acquainted with you.

There are some advantages that White Expats have to attract local single Asian ladies:

Asian women are friendly towards Western men, especially Caucasians. They are very kind and polite to treat tourists and expats who are from the Western countries like America, Australia, Italy, Germany, UK, Canada and so on.
Most Western men are strongly in bed which is one of the favorites of some Asian women that you need to unleash it. Local Asian men will be rejected by small size. Some of single women in Asia have a wild sexual desires hidden in them, you are a white man so you will opt to unleash it.
A White Western man is considered as a “winning lottery” for an Asian woman. Many local women are living in poor economic condition so they want to marry with a White Expat to have better financial situation. Sometimes this turns out untrue because some Western guys are very poor.
Most White Expats are good people. This is true. They travel to Asia to have fun so they don’t want to cause troubles in a foreign country.
Caucasians treat women with respects and honor. Asian ladies think about this and it seems to be right. When they were born and raised in the West where strict rules are applied towards violence to women, so most of these guys never hit on their woman, no matter what.
When an Asian lady introduces her boyfriend or husband as a White foreign man to her parents, relatives or friends, she is judged as the utmost respects and talent.

There are more reasons why Western guys too popular in Asia. However, I have to say one bad side about a few guys who come to Asia and cheat on naive Asian women. Don’t do that. You guys have all advantages that local men don’t. Most Asian women are raised by traditional custom, one-woman-one-man, you shouldn’t hurt their feelings by cheating on them. So, Western men, especially white Expats are popular in Asia because they are viewed as the dream husbands for Asian women.

Singaporean Women Marry Caucasian SO Singaporean Men Marry Foreign Brides

Jun28

Singaporean women seeking Caucasian men to marry has been increasing in 2014. So, Singaporean single men don’t have a chance to find local women, they have to find foreign brides in Thailand, China, Vietnam and the Philippines.

There are many reasons why single women in Singapore prefer Expats (Caucasian) for marriage including American, German, Australian, Canadian, Polish, Italian and so on. Singaporean men have no choice but marry international brides. In this article, we use Expats and Caucasian respectively.

One of the main reasons that Singaporean men seeking foreign brides for marriage is the shortage of single women in Singapore. Men outnumber women is the problem. A few decades ago, most families prefer sons over daughters. Most Singaporeans simply think that women will get married and have children and become mothers so they value sons more important. Also, most families have less children nowadays, usually one child is enough and they prefer the son over daughter.

Why do Singaporean women prefer to marry Caucasian over local men in Singapore:

Singapore women White men (Photo: ibtimes.com)

MONEY

The average salary of a Caucasian in Singapore is 3 times or higher compared to the average salary of a Singaporean. Many women in Singapore are interested in marrying Expats because of power of money.

EDUCATION

Expats who come to Singapore are higher educated than local men. Singaporean didn’t consider education as an important thing a few decades ago. By this time, young people don’t continue their education and just want to go out and find a job. However, nowadays most young generation consider to get a B.S. or Master degree which are the utmost important thing in their life. That’s a good news for all Singaporeans. However, most women like to get married with a man who is higher than them in education while most men prefer to marry a woman who is less educated than them.

RACE ATTRACTS

Most Singaporean women prefer to get married with a tall and strong Caucasian while most local men are shorter and weaker. The White Expats are too popular in other countries including Japan, South Korea, and etc. Many Asian girls dream about marrying a White man. So, Singaporean ladies dream to marry one White Expat, which is common.

Why do Singaporean men marry foreign brides?

NO CHOICE

Since the man outnumbers woman in Singapore, they can’t find a wife here. Also, most Singaporean ladies try to “look higher” or “marry up” for a White Caucasian. Local men in this country have no choice but find an international bride in Viet Nam, Thailand, China, India, Indosenia or Philippines to marry.

SOCIAL TREND

If one Singaporean man gets married with a beautiful and young foreign wife, then other men like to follow which has become a trend. There has been a surge in the number of Singaporean guys taking international brides in the last few years. Most of these men are older than their wife a lot, 10 to even 30 years old. Many of these guys are able to find a wife in Singapore but they want to find a young and beautiful foreign wife. Also, they think most of these foreign brides are not as “hard head” as high-educated local Singaporean women.

Singapore man with foreign bride (Photo: NYTimes.com)

In conclusion, that’s the reality which has been occurring in this country. If you look at our Singaporean dating site at Asiandatenet.com, then you can see women just look for White men while Singaporean men try to find foreign ladies. When the man outnumbers woman and most Singaporean women usually “marry up” or look for a White Caucasian for marriage, single men in Singapore look for beautiful and young foreign brides.

How To Find Japanese Women Seeking Men Online At Internet Dating Sites?

Jun21

Japan is a developed country in which people living in fast-pace lifestyle so they don’t have time to search their soul mate. Japanese singles use the internet dating sites to sign up a profile and meet their life partner nowadays. That’s the most easiest and effective way to find single Japanese women seeking men online today.

Japanese women (Hara Hachibunme) (From Wikilamdep)

You can find Japanese single women online in a matter of minutes. I can show you how to do it. The first thing you do is to sign up a profile at free Japanese dating sites such as Asiandatenet.com or others, ignore the expensive dating services where you have to pay too much membership fee. I am speaking of free Asian dating websites that promise to help you with a single woman in Japan.

Most of Japanese ladies who signed up online are those who don’t trust guys in a bar or club. They are tired of short-term dates which last for one or two nights. They are no longer interested in men in clubs or bars who just look for sex, but no love or relationship. They are searching for men online who are ready to settle down a long term relationship which leads to marriage. Are you one of those? You can find a sweet lady online today.

Single women in Japan like the idea of having security in their relationship so they go online dating sites to find that perfect man. From these internet dating services, they can read man’s profiles and find a match before they contact them. Even though if you contact them first, they still read your profile to learn about your personal preferences before they answer your message.

Learn about Japanese women

It is a must. If you are a Japanese man, then you will sleep through it. For Western or foreign men, you guys need to learn about what Japanese women want in a man before you try to date one. They are one of the most beautiful women on the world. Most of Japanese women tend not to like foreign men very much, they do prefer to choose Japanese men for their own life mate. That’s the truth.

Most of Japanese women have big problems to speak English. Some of them do speak English but with strong accent so it is hard to understand. If you are a non-Japanese man, then you will have a hard time to date a single woman in Japan.

Some of Japanese women who tend to be interested in foreign men go to English pubs. You can hook up with a chick at these places. However, these ladies are not as “good” as the ones you meet in other places like school, shopping centers or online dating services.

Japanese women are not submissive. If you are a non-Japanese men who used to date Asian ladies like Filipina, Thai, Chinese, then you will see big differences in Japanese women. They are independent ladies. They don’t need you to take care of them about materials and make them listen to you. This is wrong understanding about ladies in Japan.

Go to online dating sites to find Japanese women

There are many ways to find them, like markets, movie theaters, parks, Church, schools, and so on but the best way is the online method. If you want to find Japanese single women, then you can go to the internet dating sites to find them.

Why are Foreign Entrepreneurs Doing Business in the Philippines?

Jun14

There are many Western entrepreneurs doing business in the Philippines and many are planning to open a company in this country. Most of these entrepreneurs are men who come from America, Australia, Canada, Poland and other Western and European countries. There are many other things that make these businessmen attract in doing business in this country. There are three important things for successful foreign entrepreneurs, including personal contact, human interaction and trust.

Filipina ladies Western men party on boat (Picture from Tropicalmba)

It takes time to do business successfully in the Philippines. You should learn about the culture and lifestyle first before opening a company here. There are many differences between the Western cultures and Filipino culture.

You usually make direct eye contact with people when you are talking to. This rule does not apply in the Philippines. This is considered “rude”.
Many entrepreneurs first meet in a restaurant to eat and drink to discuss about business or have any contract signed.
The outlook is extremely important so dress yourself professionally during meetings. This helps you gain respects from other people.
There is no “exact” time frame in here. If you are scheduled for one-hour meeting, then it always takes longer than that. Don’t expect the meeting lasts for exact time frame.
Speak slowly and clearly during meetings.

Why are so many of Western men doing business in the Philippines?

The main answer is, the Philippines, provides the best value for most business men from the US and Europe as well as Asia. There are many other attracts that men exciting about opening a business here.

Dating in the Philippines

There are many young single Filipino women who are seeking Western men for dating, relationship and marriage. Most foreign entrepreneurs are from 40 to 65 years old. They can date a beautiful and sexy 20 to 25-year-old Filipina lady at ease. This attracts many business men around the world.

Cheap employees

You can find cheap employees and train them to do a good job. Most of Filipinos speak English well and you pay them much lower than you pay your employees in US or Europe countries. They are hardworking staff.

Travel and adventure

In this country, there are many places you can travel and enjoy yourself in a warm weather, including beautiful beaches, parks, and so on.

Clubs / bars / party

It is cheap to go to a bar or club. You can party all days in a week.

Filipina ladies

This is one of the important reason that many foreign entrepreneurs opened their business in the Philippines. As I mentioned on the dating in the Philippines, many young and beautiful Filipina women are seeking Western men for romance and even marriage. If you are one of those guys, then you can find a young lady here.

Beautiful Filipina ladies (Picture from myblueheart)

In conclusion, there are many business men who already opened business and those who are planning to do business in the Philippines. I think the most important reason that attracts these entrepreneurs is the lower absolute costs for everything. The absolute costs are lower than other countries like Bali and Thailand. For about $450 a month, you can enjoy your beautiful and luxury life in here.

Why Are Single Men In South Korea Looking For For International Brides?

Jun7

South Korean men are looking for foreign brides including Filipina, Vietnamese, Thai and so on because of the shifting demographics in the last few years. Many middle-aged men are left behind so they must look for international brides for marriage. There are also international workers from poor countries like Mongolia, Vietnam, Thailand, and Philippines who come to work in South Korea, got married with Korean men.

Korean men international brides (Photo from NYtimes)

Seoul is the most popular city in South Korea that thousands of middle-aged men have a hard time to find a wife. Most of these guys are old and poor, some of them are divorced and some are still single. Single women here don’t look at them and they are looking for better one. In the big cities, most women set their high standards on career. The men who are “low” in education or career are left behind so they have to look for oversea brides. Many South Korean women seeking American men for marriage nowadays.

Another reason that South Korean men are seeking foreign brides is that they like to have “young” and “virgin” women. They want to have babies with young international women. Some of them marry a foreign wife to have babies and take care of their elderly or sick parents. In this country, there are some marriage brokers or services that advertise international brides as an item for sale. These brokers and services usually have an international connection with the people over there who can help to find poor and young women for old men in South Korea. There are many painfully miserable results for such marriages of a young international woman with an old Korean man. The language barrier is also an issue. I have to conclude that such marriages are “no love” at the beginning. Many of those marriages don’t turn out well as we have read from reported incidents of violence.

Every year, there are more than 40,000 Koreans marrying foreign brides and the numbers are expected to continue increasing in the next few years. There are an increase in unhappy marriages between old Korean husbands and young foreign wives.

Why do these foreign women accept such old men in South Korea?

Escaping poverty is the main reason. These international women are often motivated by the desire to make good money in South Korea. They accept old Korean husbands just because they can work to make money to help their family back home. This is the reason many “naive” foreign women deal with huge cultural and language barriers in this country. Many of them became the sex slaves of the husband.

Why do South Korean men marry foreign brides?

There are many benefits that Korean men marry foreign ladies. Most of these oversea women are less picky than local women about financial and social status of their husbands. Local women pay attention to the education background and the career of their future husbands so poor and “low” standard Korean men can’t stand a chance. Old Korean men believe that foreign women are submissive so they take the lead of the family.

In reality, both single men and women in South Korea are having a tough time searching spouses. The woman is more selective when it comes to find a man because of her high standards in education, financial and social background. It is hard for a lady seeking a man who meets her expectations. This ends up many men go for foreign brides.

What Japanese Women Really Want In A Man

May31

Japanese women are the most modern women since they were born and raised in Japan, a greatest country in Asia continent. What a Japanese woman wants in a man is the question that you want to know. There are men from different countries who live in Japan get confused about these ladies. Even local men want to know about what Japanese ladies want from the man.

Japanese woman

There are two most important things that most Japanese women love in a man:

Japanese women want a man who is there for them when they are lonely. They are afraid of the loneliness on nights in the room. Sometimes they don’t have any plan so they feel sad and empty, they want to have a man there for them.
When they are tired or sad, they would want a man who can talk to them, hold them in their hands, kiss them and say to their ear “I love you forever”.
They love a man who make love well and perform well in the bedroom.

There are other things about what they want in a man. It does not matter if you are a Japanese man or a Western man, a Japanese woman usually likes a man with these characteristics:

She likes a man who listens to her and speak sweetly to her.
She likes a man who takes care of her on daily life, especially when she is sick.
She likes a man who hugs and kisses her when he goes to work and gets home after work.
She likes a man who pay attention to her whenever she is sad and happy.
She likes a man who thinks her as a priority, instead of his male friends.
She likes a man who does not look at other ladies when he is walking hand in hand with her.
She likes a man who gives her gifts and flowers on every special occasions like birthday, valentine day, etc.
Most important, she likes a man who treats her with respect.

There are more things that Japanese single women want in a man. Do you know why single women in Japan go for Western guys? Because these men know how to treat a woman with respect, so women fall on them. Most Japanese men are culturally developed so they don’t value a woman as much as foreign men do. There are many foreign guys living in Japan dating beautiful and sexy Japanese ladies and we’ve seen it. A Japanese man rarely say “I love you” to his woman even he loves her very much. A Western man says “I love you” every time he speaks with her. Why is it too hard to say it to your sweetheart?

Japanese women want a man who treat women with honor and respects. They like men who are kind to women and apply concepts like “ladies first” when dating. They like men who treat them like a princess and always behave like a gentleman. The concept “ladies first” has been applied by European and American men for a long time. This is what a Japanese lady likes from a man.

Do you feel good when someone treats you well? Women are the same. The feel good when they are treated with respects. Women in Japan are different from women in other developed countries. They are strong, powerful and high educated. They are still women, you know? So, what they want in a man is the one who make them feel good.

Golden Traits About Asian Men In Asia & In The West

May24

There are many members at my Asiandatenet.com asked me to write an article about Asian men. So, this article is about the golden traits of most Asian guys that I have seen or heard. They are good at everything including in bed, kissers, at math, sexy, movie, music, art and so on. Asians I am talking about are Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Singaporean, Thai, Filipino, Vietnamese, Indonesian, Taiwanese, Laos, Cambodian, Indian, Pakistani and so on.

Asian man in Asia

Asian men are good at everything

They are generally good at everything. They are the best boyfriends or husbands in the way they take care of family and children. They are loyal and devoted to the family. You have not seen many divorces in Asian couples. Most women who married Asians admitted that these guys are prize husbands. If you live in the United States of America, Australia, Canada or other Western nations, then you may have seen Asian men married White, Black or Hispanic women. You can conclude how good they are in the West. They bring the their traditional culture to the West and combine it with the Western culture so that make the perfect role in most of circumstances for their family.

The Asian culture usually relates around the the family and working hard. The husband is the head of the household so the must bring home the money to take care of his family and children. Some guys who have their big ego complain about Asian men and not respect Asian men. You know what? I have to admit that these guys are wrong. I recommend that you should not make other men go down if you judge them by your own mind. Every race, there are a small group of bad people and the rest of them are good. Generally speaking, Asian men are good at everything.

Asian men are smart in at math

Most of Asian men have the highest IQ in the world. They are not only good at math but they could also be smart in all other subjects. The reason is that their parents push them to study, doing homework, improve their brain since the young age. Most Asian parents always stress education as being the paramount important subject in their life. Most of Asian boys study math like crazy because this course is the main one that develops their brain and creativity. Their parents put a lot of pressure on their education so of course it ends up with high marks and smart in math.

Asian men are good husbands

Asian men are very hard-working, sincere and caring husbands that most of women like about these traits. They work hard to make money and support their kids. When you marry an Asian guy, he takes care of you and your children. It does not matter you are laid off or can’t make money in the future, he is there for you, take care of you. He handles you and your kids without a problem.

Asian men are good in bed

They care about you so of course they are good in bed. From Western women’s point of view, some of us may be small in size for you. However, they are awesome in bed based on their overall performance. Generally speaking, if he cares about his partner, then he is amazing in bed.

Dating, relationship and marriage

Asian men are very smart in choosing their life partner. They don’t choose the lady for marriage they meet in a bar or club. In Asian culture, the parents usually interfere in their son’s marriage relationship. Most of these Asian guys find ladies from school, church, shopping center, market, and online dating services. The internet dating sites are too popular nowadays that created thousands of happy relationships and marriages a year. Most of these single Asian men use such a dating site to find the best woman and build a relationship with.

I don’t know what else to write because there are too many golden traits about Asian men.

What is your ideas about good characteristics of Asian guys you want to add?

Tips For Asian Guys: Don’t Be Shy To Express Your Love

May17

Asian guys are honest and loyal in relationship and marriage but they are too shy to express their love to a woman. When they have a crush with someone, it takes too much time to approach her. They have never expressed “I love you” to their girlfriend. Why is it too hard for Asian guy to express his love? Does it have some traditional culture to do with this? Is this about religious beliefs that prevent him from expressing his love?

Asian guys

Even though they sign up a profile to find a lady at Asian dating site like Asiandatenet.com, they are shy to upload their photos. What’s wrong with you guys? Look at Western men, they upload their pictures on their profiles to prove that they are serious in seeking a woman. Why can’t you post a picture on your personal ad? Many Western ladies or half-Western and half-Asian women complain about the shyness of these Asian men (Chinese, Filipino, Thai, Cambodian, Vietnamese, Indian, Pakistani, Japanese, Singaporean, Korean, Indonesian, etc.)

Don’t be “timid sheeps”

You have to approach to whoever you like to date with. Expressing your affection to her is a simple thing to do. If you don’t approach or express your feeling to her, then you won’t know whether or not she is interested in you or not. Don’t let the opportunity passes by. Other guys will take that chance and you will miss it. I have to admit that most Asian men don’t talk a lot with their lady but they are responsible what what they said and acted. However, I recommend you be more brave and active to express your love to your beloved lady.

timid sheeps

In the old era, Chinese men have never expressed their affection towards their woman but they stay with each other to the rest of their life. They have never said “I love you” to the wife throughout their lifetime. The Chinese wife understands silently about that word, “I love you”, based on what he acts and does for her. That’s fine because it is long time ago. However, you live on this modern century, you need to express your love toward your girlfriend or wife.

Let me ask you a question, How do you feel when you hear your lover says “I love you”? You feel great, really. You want to hear it every second, minute, hour or day. So, why don’t you say it to your beloved gal? It helps improve your relationship if you express your feeling. She is happy to know how much you love her.

There are many reasons why Asian guys, especially Chinese, lack of openness towards their beloved gals. You are great people in general. If you live in a developing country like China, then you will be affected by the culture. However, I suggest you learn from Chinese American men by the way they express their affection to their beloved ones.

Be confident

She wants to hear “I love you” from your voice. This is the most important thing that you should learn to say it every time you have a feeling for her. Some of you are very successful in business and career so you have enough confidence when dealing with people. Why can’t you express your feeling with your girlfriend or wife? Try it, go home today and say “I love you” to her. She will be happy. She needs to hear that from you. She deserves to hear that from her beloved man. If you really love her, then express what you feel. Good luck!